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    Voice your opinions...

    Preliminary reports that a sig sauer assault rifle was used... so it's likely another ban will be up for even more serious discussion due to the 3 shooting this year involving these weapons....

    I wouldn't be very surprised if the ban comes in 2013.

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    Yea... kindergarten class...

    Troll smarter...

    Anyways, with sufficient training and suprise, even people trained to shoot back will be mowed down quite easily.

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    Doubt it. Also he was in a bullet proof vest.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hkkmr View Post
    Doubt it. Also he was in a bullet proof vest.
    Shoot him in the gun hand or the legs or the face.

    Or forget the whole gun idea. Sure-make guns illegal. And pass out hand grenades to protect children from people who have guns illegally.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    Shoot him in the gun hand or the legs or the face.

    Or forget the whole gun idea. Sure-make guns illegal. And pass out hand grenades to protect children from people who have guns illegally.
    Most people wish they could make a headshot under fire.. but I doubt many could.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ashton View Post
    A bulletproof vest just prevents a bullet from killing you, it doesn’t turn a person into an invincible terminator that can take bullets and keep on fighting—he’d still drop the floor and be in a great deal of pain if shot.
    He might drop down in pain but people can have a good deal of pain tolerance and can be fairly stout. Anyways, generally untrained individuals have a hard time doing much of anything when bullets are flying around, even people who know how to shoot. Even going to a paintball field, you will find people generally find cover, and that's just to hide from paint balls. Human instinct needs to be overcome thru training in order to respond to this sort of situation. So it would require teachers to be trained and to have them be in the right place at the right time. That's not exactly feasible either. Given this individual only killed 6 adults, it's entirely possible none of them would have guns as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ashton View Post
    If the guy had bullets coming back his way, he’d be much more suppressed in terms of what he could do.

    Also I’m not sure “training” you think exists out there that makes people more capable of keeping cool under fire. There is no such thing in the police force, or the military for that matter.
    Wut?

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Live_fire_exercise

    One big training part of live fire exercise is not the bullets coming at you, it's the noise. Anyways, with surprise, even individuals with guns may have no time to react. I seriously doubt one teacher with a 9mm will be able to take this guy down unless the teacher got lucky or is well-trained.

    9 out of 10 times, I would expect a individual with a bullet proof vest and a assault rifle to steam roll any individual with a hand gun.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ashton View Post
    Sure, active-duty combat troops do some simulations in it, esp. if they’ve a deployment coming up. And being exposed to the sights/sounds/environment of such conditions can help promote some marginal desensitization when faced with the real thing… though mentally conditioning one’s self for operations in Baghdad is going to be a much different psychological experience, compared to taking on a madman at a kindergarten school in your own hometown.

    How does one prepare for that sort of contingency? Because your police aren’t getting trained in this sort thing, and likely wouldn’t fare much better than a typical gun-owner.
    You kinda of proved the point.

    An individual with a assault rifle and vest has a huge firepower advantage against almost anyone with a handgun. I think most cops are just going to hide behind a barrier much like any teacher with a gun. So your original point of a couple of teachers with guns is fallacious and only infrequently would any defensive individual be capable of preventing the situation.

    Quote Originally Posted by unlikely to happen
    A teacher or two on scene with concealed carry likely could’ve prevented this from escalating into the bloodbath
    I doubt it, the moment this individual entered the classroom, and killed his mother, the body count was going to be in the double digits.

    Most individuals can't deal with paintball situations much less live fire situations unless one is acclimated and somewhat expecting it, ala combat zone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ashton View Post
    The overriding point isn’t about having an actual gun battle with the assailant, but having the deterrence present in the situation to either make the individual reconsider and not carry out the act in the 1st place, or to at least contain them in the event they decide to try anyway.

    Schools are a wonderful place for crazies to rationalize carrying out violence, considering they usually “Gun Free Zone” signs posted outside.
    Well this guys was going to kill his mother... so it was kinda of a personal thing...

    Schools aren't really gun free zones, my high school had two police officers on staff full time.

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    Maybe banning guns would help, maybe not. But there are people I know who I am glad have guns and I feel safe(r) around them. Granted, they also have other qualities and skills that make them reliable and good citizens/people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Minde View Post
    But there are people I know who I am glad have guns and I feel safe(r) around them. .
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    Quote Originally Posted by Minde View Post
    Maybe banning guns would help, maybe not. But there are people I know who I am glad have guns and I feel safe(r) around them. Granted, they also have other qualities and skills that make them reliable and good citizens/people.

    Also,


    Violence starts in people's minds and hearts. I don't think there's any one simple solution (other than invasive totalitarian control, a la TSA...).
    I would say banning guns wouldn't help any specific instance, but may reduce frequency. These shooters tend to attack areas of weakness where they will be able to do what they intend without resistance so it's unlikely there to be individuals who can stop them.

    It's really hard to stop an assault weapon carrying and vested individual with a handgun, regardless of how skilled or capable. Also most individuals are simply incapable of responding in this sort of situation, even well trained individuals.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG View Post
    LMAO americans.
    You've been doing a good job of making yourself unappealing lately.


    Quote Originally Posted by hkkmr View Post
    I would say banning guns wouldn't help any specific instance, but may reduce frequency. These shooters tend to attack areas of weakness where they will be able to do what they intend without resistance so it's unlikely there to be individuals who can stop them.

    It's really hard to stop an assault weapon carrying and vested individual with a handgun, regardless of how skilled or capable. Also most individuals are simply incapable of responding in this sort of situation, even well trained individuals.
    Yes, which is one reason why I think this is a multi-faceted problem without any one clean solution. Doesn't mean we shouldn't try to figure it out and make changes where we can, of course.





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    Quote Originally Posted by Minde View Post
    You've been doing a good job of making yourself unappealing lately.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ashton View Post
    Correct. There’s a number countries in the world with comparable and even more liberal policies re: gun ownership than the United States, yet they don’t have much in the way of gun violence.

    Some of the gun/capita rates for different nations have apparently been compiled here—albeit this is just a measure of quantity, and doesn’t necessarily correspond to the content of what’s readily available for ownership.
    American gun ownership is still the highest. The laws generally don't cover existing firearms.

    IMO, gun violence is more likely to be associated with gun ownership then gun laws. I don't think laws have much effect except to reduce increase in gun ownership.

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    I can't help but think that people who want to shoot others will be able to get ahold of a gun somehow and I would rather have one too. I guess for me its more interesting to try to figure out why these shootings are happening... what is the psychology behind them and why can't we catch them sooner.
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    I don't think banning specific weapons is going to magic stop these types of scenarios occurring, the difficulties are deeper wound in society, idk what happened but i imagine the person murdering innocent people was a victim him/herself. The whole thing makes me very sad on a larger scale, humanity lets down humanity.

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    It's like I just expressed a little bit ago on Facebook -- guns are not the issue, people are. People who want to kill will find a way to kill. Take note of similar news. So what if we ban guns -- will we eventually have to ban butter knives and spoons because people are beginning to kill others with those?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Roro View Post
    It's like I just expressed a little bit ago on Facebook -- guns are not the issue, people are. People who want to kill will find a way to kill. Take note of similar news. So what if we ban guns -- will we eventually have to ban butter knives and spoons because people are beginning to kill others with those?
    Well that man only wounded 20 kids not killed 20 kids...

    Also almost all the multi-individual knife attacks in China are against small children because knifing 20 adults is fairly difficult to accomplish.

    A gun is a extremely efficient killing mechanism for multiple individuals, adult or otherwise. Range/ease of use etc, I quite like them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hkkmr View Post
    Well that man only wounded 20 kids not killed 20 kids...
    Maybe he didn't want to actually kill. If he wanted to kill, I'm sure he could have. He had access to the kids long enough to wound them, I'm sure if he wanted to kill he could have aimed for the throat, slit a little harder, and killed them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Roro View Post
    Maybe he didn't want to actually kill. If he wanted to kill, I'm sure he could have. He had access to the kids long enough to wound them, I'm sure if he wanted to kill he could have aimed for the throat, slit a little harder, and killed them.
    People are just generally shit with knives... also he was likely using something like a kitchen knife or a vegetable cleaver, not something like a k-bar or a knife made for killing.

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    Did no one read how Cain killed his brother, Abel? They didn't have guns when this happened.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa Darmandzhyan View Post
    Did no one read how Cain killed his brother, Abel? They didn't have guns when this happened.
    I don't read fiction.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa Darmandzhyan View Post
    Did no one read how Cain killed his brother, Abel? They didn't have guns when this happened.
    Cain didn't kill 20 kids when he killed his brother.

    Anyways, gun control imo isn't about guns but about comparative firepower. A long bow and arrow could be as deadly, but would require significantly more skill to use. So would a sword. The problem is how do average citizens and police deal with this level of firepower in a reliable fashion. With a handgun, it would be a severe disadvantage still and it would be hard to take this individual out without help.

    A skilled group can take on a much larger group given the appropriate tactical situation, see the movie 300. The problem with guns is it can turn a unskilled individual into a killing machine, which is the history of war for the last 100 years.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa Darmandzhyan View Post
    Did no one read how Cain killed his brother, Abel? They didn't have guns when this happened.
    Prove it.
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    Kids in the class need to be taught SWAT team kinda stuff. Throwing books (as a weapon, as moving cover, as a distraction, and as a general deterrent all at once), knocking desks over to be used as makeshift cover, just all-out bumrushing the bastard, etc.; in the end, there's twenty or so students and one gunman and those twenty need to viscerally know that they aren't totally helpless, that a gun must be aimed and shot by a mortal human being and it ain't a free pass to be superman or nothing...
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    Quote Originally Posted by woofwoofl View Post
    Kids in the class need to be taught SWAT team kinda stuff. Throwing books (as a weapon, as moving cover, as a distraction, and as a general deterrent all at once), knocking desks over to be used as makeshift cover, just all-out bumrushing the bastard, etc.; in the end, there's twenty or so students and one gunman and those twenty need to viscerally know that they aren't totally helpless, that a gun must be aimed and shot by a mortal human being and it ain't a free pass to be superman or nothing...
    First you need to be trained to not run and hide when the first shot goes off. It's probably easier to teach kids to do it then adults tho...

    *sarcasm Maybe we just need all kids to be Sudanese child soldiers, who are brought up on rape and systematic violence...

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    Quote Originally Posted by hkkmr View Post
    First you need to be trained to not run and hide when the first shot goes off. It's probably easier to teach kids to do it then adults tho...

    *sarcasm Maybe we just need all kids to be Sudanese child soldiers, who are brought up on rape and systematic violence...
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    This debate repeats over and over and always with the same stupid arguments on both sides.

    First of all, indeed, gun ownership increases the risk of major violence. Guns are weapons after all and are among the most sophisticated we know today. But guns still don't fire themselves, though, so the true origin of violence lies somewhere else.

    Politicians are very good at sidetracking issues. They don't want to deal with them on a very deep level. Likely because they don't really care but even if if they do, they probably still don't understand them. So they like to present things that seem like relevant to the issue but that are unlikely to change things by much, if at all. And one of such things is gun ownership laws.

    Why someone takes a gun and starts a killing spree escapes my mind. Surely, every incident has different motivations. But one thing that is common is that such incidents are typical in the US. It could be that there are many more guns in the US than any other place or it could be something else. And like I said, since weapons still don't fire themselves, then the problem is other than the quantity of guns.

    I don't know many details about the culture over there but I surely know a few important facts. And one of them is that families are far less important there than in other parts of the world. I still can't understand the obsession of youth over there to leave their parent's home early. Or maybe is it the urge of the parents to get rid of their children as fast as possible? Otherwise you can't explain the colonies of retired in other places.

    Here in Mexico students go to the university and usually still sleep in their parents house. They are in constant contact with their family. You see, in your family there is an specific reason to treat you well (at least in theory): you're sharing a blood link. But in the US it's very commonto send them to student-only dormitories. This is relevant because, from what I've observed, when you throw a bunch of people of about the same age but who have nothing in common in a place and force them to be together, problems are likely to arise. Such places do not have hard rules in reality and when you allow people to live in anarchy and make their own, they usually end up with some nasty ones product of raw force and competition. Think about it. We know socionics. If you don't filter people by types, in any large group there are big chances that you're always surrounded by people who rubs you the wrong way. But since they are strangers they have absolutely no reason to be polite toward you. So conflicts get ugly.

    Being honest, I've seriously considered about killing someone who keeps rubbing me the wrong way at several points in my life. And I'm pretty sure that lots of people would say the same. But since I'm not a psychopath, I've never got past the idea. It's just a matter of finding someone with weaker inhibitions to turn such ideas into a real disaster.

    But let's be concise here: shootings aren't but the tip of the iceberg. Violence starts much earlier and is far more widespread that we're used to admit. It's not a coincidence that such things happen in places I described above: school, work, etc.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mikemex View Post
    I don't know many details about the culture over there but I surely know a few important facts. And one of them is that families are far less important there than in other parts of the world. I still can't understand the obsession of youth over there to leave their parent's home early. Or maybe is it the urge of the parents to get rid of their children as fast as possible? Otherwise you can't explain the colonies of retired in other places.

    Here in Mexico students go to the university and usually still sleep in their parents house. They are in constant contact with their family. You see, in your family there is an specific reason to treat you well (at least in theory): you're sharing a blood link. But in the US it's very commonto send them to student-only dormitories. This is relevant because, from what I've observed, when you throw a bunch of people of about the same age but who have nothing in common in a place and force them to be together, problems are likely to arise. Such places do not have hard rules in reality and when you allow people to live in anarchy and make their own, they usually end up with some nasty ones product of raw force and competition.
    Meh. The Nordic countries generally score low on the homicide per capita- list, and high on the guns per capita-list. However, people here leave thei parents' home roughly 10 years earlier (around the age of 20) than in some other European countries (Bulgary, Greece, Italy..) where the average age of leaving is somewhere around 30. I found a statistic on how many percent of 18-24 year olds still live with their parents in some European countries. The two Nordic countries that are included (Finland & Denmark) are the two lowest ones on the list. (the blue & red represent men&women)


    EDIT: A funny fact related to the famiy-focusedness of different countries just came into my mind. My brother went to the US for a year when he was 16, and, since he was supposed to live with a host family, the organization that arranged the exchange gave him a little booklet beforehand that had all sorts of information and advice on how to deal with the decreased liberties (since most people don't have curfews or other rules at that age anymore) & family-focused culture in the USA. I guess having someone else watch after you and control what you do and when and with whom and cooking your meals and doing your laundry can be a bit of a culture shock for someone who's been doing all those things by himself for years.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Agarina View Post
    Meh. The Nordic countries generally score low on the homicide per capita- list, and high on the guns per capita-list. However, people here leave thei parents' home roughly 10 years earlier (around the age of 20) than in some other European countries (Bulgary, Greece, Italy..) where the average age of leaving is somewhere around 30. I found a statistic on how many percent of 18-24 year olds still live with their parents in some European countries. The two Nordic countries that are included (Finland & Denmark) are the two lowest ones on the list. (the blue & red represent men&women)

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    What this dataset mostly shows is that in most european countries young people still live with their parents, more so when the per-capita income is low. The reason is only partially "cultural", and it has a lot to do with how much the government gives to young people who don't live at home and, say, go to college (ex. in Italy you do not get anything, you need to work; in Denmark people were getting 700-800 euros a month!!! More than most entry-level jobs in Italy).
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    Mexico doesn't have a lot of gun violence outside the drug shit, but mikes prices made me wanna shoot someone.
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    Violent people will result to other violent means. Gun control is not the solution. Guns are just an easier way of dealing with their violence.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa Darmandzhyan View Post
    Guns are just an easier way of dealing with their violence.
    Personally, I think if I went psycho, guns would be a horrible way of being violent. Push button-loud noise-someone falls over wouldn't be as satisfactory as, say, knifing small animals.
    (Maybe this is the wrong time to say something like that...but I'm pretty sure it's not the wrong place.)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    Personally, I think if I went psycho, guns would be a horrible way of being violent. Push button-loud noise-someone falls over wouldn't be as satisfactory as, say, knifing small animals.
    (Maybe this is the wrong time to say something like that...but I'm pretty sure it's not the wrong place.)
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    This shooting has nothing to do with gun control. Politics is generally concerned with statistics, and 20 kiddies isn't even a blip on the radar.
    But, for a certainty, back then,
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    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

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    Leave Fabie alone. The world has every right to laugh at Americans.
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