"trying too hard" in this context is maybe more of a plea, than an accusation, to turn down the clumsy and borderline-embarrassing antics you rely on to navigate thru this forum, esp since you're not a toxic or malicious presence, and probably just completely oblivious about how you come across to others.
edit: actually no one said "please don't try so hard" in this thread. i thought it in my head and for some reason i was under the impression that someone said it on here.
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either way, yeah.