People, you complain about your dual not taking notice of you. EXTRAVERTS take the initiative and effort to get to know the introvert. Because, well extraverts watch things and introverts can't really gauge accurately who's/what's being watched so they do as their self directs them to do. If your dual is a total douche, and they don't try to figure you out to understand you and your being, they aren't going to make the connections and you can't hit them over the head and drag them to your cave, sorry.