I'm bettin' OP was sweet on their Super-ego relation when he/she posted the question

If you've correctly typed your Super-ego & hook up, you'll be inflicting mental self abuse on yourself.

If you know yourself cognitively, you'll choose a person with similar values, not hindering values

I'd say do it, man. If you dig being neurotic, mentally miserable & emotionally maladjusted then Super-ego is def for you.