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  • aggressor and yes

    5 5.26%
  • aggressor and no

    6 6.32%
  • victim and yes

    14 14.74%
  • victim and no

    8 8.42%
  • caregiver and yes

    3 3.16%
  • caregiver and no

    6 6.32%
  • infantile and yes

    15 15.79%
  • infantile and no

    22 23.16%
  • I'm a shithead and I'm voting for this one

    5 5.26%
  • I'm not sure of my type and yes

    5 5.26%
  • I'm not sure of my type and no

    6 6.32%
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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    Almost half the votes are infantiles!
    Almost all of them said yes at the time I made my post!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Agarina View Post
    Almost all of them said yes at the time I made my post!
    Just takes a little imagination to think about it...

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    Aggressor and yes.

    Although, as far as bondage devices and contraptions go, they're awesome, but spending money on that and costume-y stuff is ugh. Just bring your naked self and some rope.
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    I do not see the option War Profiteer. Anyhow, upon checking the ballot infantiles and aggressors pave the way. I'm thinking about voting as well, just to spice it up a bit and mix it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nomenclature View Post
    but spending money on that and costume-y stuff is ugh.
    I would spend money on costumes just because I like costumes, There's nothing sexual about it.

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    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    I would spend money on costumes just because I like costumes, There's nothing sexual about it.
    It is Dragoncon weekend in Atlanta, costumes are most definitely about sex.

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    Very rarely have I been turned on by BDSM. It's happened before, yes, but most often I am turned on by consensual sexual thoughts. BDSM isn't necessarily wrong to me, it's also sort of natural in a way. Just not normally my thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Snaps View Post
    Very rarely have I been turned on by BDSM. It's happened before, yes, but most often I am turned on by consensual sexual thoughts. BDSM isn't necessarily wrong to me, it's also sort of natural in a way. Just not normally my thing.
    bdsm is consensual. its not rape.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lungs View Post
    bdsm is consensual. its not rape.


    and not all bdsm necessarily has a b/d component, though it is a common feature. it's much more tame than, say, a rape fantasy which is a type of sexual roleplay

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    Lungs, can you put War Profiteer option in that poll and make it multiple choice?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    I would spend money on costumes just because I like costumes, There's nothing sexual about it.
    I'm not talking about costumes at large, I'm talking about latex bodysuits and leather in BDSM. It's definitely fetishized in that case.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nomenclature View Post
    I'm not talking about costumes at large, I'm talking about latex bodysuits and leather in BDSM. It's definitely fetishized in that case.
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    For poll purposes, Rihanna is most likely an INFp victim, and she would most likely vote 'yes'.

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    Ugh..Goreans.
    Well, everyone has their sexual fantasies, some just fantasize about the ins-and-outs of things, others about science fiction worlds (eg. Goreans).

    Some people go to comic-conventions in super-hero costumes, others dress up for star trek conventions, others do cos-play with anime characters, and a large portion of the usa dresses up in outfits they wouldn't normally wear for their night at the club...and some even dress up for church.

    Yes, goreans fall under the bdsm umbrella, but not all bdsm is gorean. Thank Goodness!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rihanna
    Chains and whips excite me
    I doubt that her ancestors shared that opinion.

    Power imbalance?
    The first party gives pain and degradation just like the second party wants it.
    If there is any power imbalance, it's the first party being the workhorse for the second.

    It's goofy? Not any goofier than the silly social roleplay you got going on when you get your tongue brown on your employer.

    It's gross? Good, I will remember to do it more in public.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    It's goofy? Not any goofier than the silly social roleplay you got going on when you get your tongue brown on your employer.
    I think you're referring to brown-nosing? When you say brown tongue, it sounds a lot dirtier... then again, maybe that's the effect you wanted?

    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    It's gross? Good, I will remember to do it more in public.
    Ugh. I was fighting hard to resist the urge to comment on this, but maybe we're Alpha activity partners after all? I hope you don't feel like I'm constantly criticizing your behavior, but then again you're usually laid-back and handle it well.

    I'm all about ruffling people's feathers. I've demonstrated this pretty much my entire tenure on this forum. In theory I love challenging the norms of society, and for this I respect you, Aqua, as a model citizen. Hahaha. But I do think some of the sexual stuff in public can be disturbing, especially when there are children around. Without understanding exactly what you implied by your comment, I'll leave it at that.

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    In short: We live in a world of sex and violence, in a post-modern culture that is killing god. I'm merely replicating my culture without the shame that burdens those unfortunate ones that can still be oppressed with the fruit that made Adam and Eve shame-conscious. If the kids of this world will be thraumatized by observing sexuality, they won't live through a typical commercial break.

    I still have yet to see the study that says how homo sapiens becomes mentally impaired if it perceives something sexual that doesn't physically appear to threaten the observer.
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    I personally find many of the BDSM practices to be either too stupid or too gross. Or both. But I can't really say where it's the fine line of what's cool kinkiness and what's too violent and unpleasant, though. I guess it's all relative and depending on personality and mood. That being said, I'm infantile and voted "no", though that's not entirely true.

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    Infantiles and caregivers.

    What a bunch of sexual killjoys.

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    Quote Originally Posted by InvisibleJim View Post
    Infantiles and caregivers.

    What a bunch of sexual killjoys.
    Did you miss the part of the poll where infantiles make up more than half the "yes" vote?
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    I went out with this EII once, lovely polite sensitve girl... absolute pervert... I think thar perhaps all NF's are a bit kinky, I reckon most I've met are, perhaps because they can't quite do the just having the physical sex thing, the mind and emotions need to be taken to interesting places as well as the body. For me I'm not particularly into bdsm or anything, it's certainly not something I'd like to get properly 'involved in', but you know I've glad I've had some kinky fun in my life, so I voted yes... it's one of the many things that in the right circumstances can float my boat. meh.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aivonaima View Post
    I'm not that much into the s/m part nowadays anymore – it got kinda boring after I had tried a bunch of different things – but I still love shibari, both as an art and sexually. I love crotch ropes, I've been doing it for some years, not an expert but my rope-working has been said to be very neat and pretty. Here's a non-worksafe photo of my tying, done more for the decorative purposes that time:

    Someone on another forum asked me whether I thought porn could be art (and if not, where the cutoff was and what I defined as porn) and craftsmanship in ropework was one of the things I brought up. Dildo glassblowing is cool too, but that's even more of a tangent.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aivonaima View Post
    I'm not that much into the s/m part nowadays anymore – it got kinda boring after I had tried a bunch of different things – but I still love shibari, both as an art and sexually. I love crotch ropes, I've been doing it for some years, not an expert but my rope-working has been said to be very neat and pretty. Here's a non-worksafe photo of my tying, done more for the decorative purposes that time:
    I've been trying to learn ropework, but have had difficulties learning it. It requires a way of thinking that doesn't come naturally to me. Having to keep track of how the rope is laying, where it's laying, what physical risks that might cause, how to keep proper tension in some places but not others, etc etc. R really loves rope, but he's also twice my size!! I also think some ropework looks much better on females than males. But when I want to look up male bondage for idea generating, the internet returns severe/harsh gay bondage. Basically, I find ropes frustrating.

    Regarding s/m...i luvs electricity...but I'm not safe enough to use it. Sux.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Taknamay View Post
    Did you miss the part of the poll where infantiles make up more than half the "yes" vote?
    This forum is full of infantiles; note they make up much more of the 'no' vote.

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    Quote Originally Posted by InvisibleJim View Post
    This forum is full of infantiles; note they make up much more of the 'no' vote.
    infantile and yes: 10, 25.00%
    infantile and no: 8, 20.00%
    something's amiss here

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    Some of you guys make me think I'm starkly in the vanilla camp.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Galen View Post
    infantile and yes: 10, 25.00%
    infantile and no: 8, 20.00%
    something's amiss here
    Yes: 11 infantile, 8 other
    No: 8 infantile, 11 other

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    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by munenori2 View Post
    Some of you guys make me think I'm starkly in the vanilla camp.
    I voted IDK, No.

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    I am ok with the kinky stuff. Yesterday i fucked a girl who liked being punched in the face while fucking

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    Yes: 11 infantile, 8 other
    No: 8 infantile, 11 other
    Alas the numbers changed since my last post.

    Ranking by ratio = profit.

    Aggressor Yes/No = 3
    Victim Yes/No = 3
    Infatile Yes/No = 1.38
    Caregiver Yes/No = 0.33
    Don't Know Yes/No = 0.33

    Some caregivers don't know they are caregivers.

    Lies, damned lies and statistics.
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    Whether it's abortion, BDSM, drugs or any other darker topic, look for the Finns that are there proudly posting about their positive stance.
    Seriously, observe this pattern.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lungs View Post
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    tonight this guy named something like "mustdowhatne1says" came into tinychat. and i told him to take his hat off and he did. and i told him to put it back on and he did. it was amusing. but then i started thinking of all the things i could tell him to do and i felt overwhelmed with my power and stopped. i couldn't handle it. i was kind of disappointed in myself.

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    You probably turned him on with the hat play and then just stopped. That is evil.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    You probably turned him on with the hat play and then just stopped. That is evil.
    I think it's something he has to get used to. My ex would often do something small, and then stop. And then I used to respond with something like "That's it?" after which she would get really angry, because I didn't realize it took a lot of effort to do that small thing. But I eventually learned to be content with anything I could get.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Taknamay View Post
    I think it's something he has to get used to. My ex would often do something small, and then stop. And then I used to respond with something like "That's it?" after which she would get really angry, because I didn't realize it took a lot of effort to do that small thing. But I eventually learned to be content with anything I could get.
    This is actually one of the issues common in particularly F/m relationships. The male is usually much more into it than the female, and the male usually wants much more 'activity' than the female. And in bdsm forums and chats, the men are often seen complaining because they can't find dominant women. And I usually laugh at their stories of 'woa is me' she's not a real Domme', because part of the submission thing includes submitting to when she says "no" or "no more for now".
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    Quote Originally Posted by anndelise View Post
    And I usually laugh at their stories of 'woa is me' she's not a real Domme', because part of the submission thing includes submitting to when she says "no" or "no more for now".
    Yes I know what this is like although, she really was NOT a real domme. She just did it as a special present for me.
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    i'm not really surprised by the amount of Infantiles who voted Yes.

    Delta infantile BDSM is hardcore serious business. it's probably a bit different for the Alphas.

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