
Originally Posted by
meatburger
Where would the ESTJ girls hang out, what type of jobs would they gravitate to? I would imagine they are quite outgoing and confident, possibly science and medicine like my friend?
I had an ESTj girlfriend ages ago, and I am good friends with another one, and I know an ESTj female-INFj male couple.
Jobs: yes, engineering, science, medicine, finance.
How to spot them: yes, they make an impression of confidence in their ability, appearance, and opinions; may be a bit awkward socially -- either a bit reserved or "trying too hard" to be charming, typical of

role.
They care about their appearance, and of the people they hang around with, but they can "adopt" any look they want -- professional businesswoman, casual, or "party" -- always managing to look the part well.
No time for typical "girly" talk, but not much into "big picture" talk either -- they prefer to discuss real events, but in detail.
Dislike "wasting their time" and doing things on the spot without previous planning.
The "typical" ESTj woman: good appearance, resembling an ESFj but more subdued, or less skilled, in external expression of emotions. Those who tend to be more reserved might be mistaken for ISFjs; those who act a bit more "jokey" might make an ESFj impression (which soon disappears).