Originally Posted by
Maritsa Darmandzhyan
I'm not changing your type. You're style of humor does not correspond to that of Jedi and Krаe, who are both LSE. Think about what you're doing in the above. I feel volitional force. How? You're applying your style of thinking to affect me. Which I don't value and which Jedi doesn't do. In all the time I've tried to type him he's never said "you still type me LSI, so your 'experience' and credibility means very little to me right now." You're putting undo and unecessary pressure on me, in a critical manner. Did you know that Jedi had to go think about what I told him as to not criticise me, he came to the conclusion himself?
You see the difference is while Te judges the effectiveness of actions "Maritsa you typing him is a waste of your energy." Ti/Se judges the person's value. My value to you now is that I lost my credibility by typing you another type than you want. Do you see how that works? You're not doing Te because to Te, a person is more constant that the actions they take. To a Te, they will like me and want me even if I'm a less credible person, if they come to that decision, but they won't point that out because they are only concerned about the actions of the person.
Static "you still type me LSI"
Dynamic "Maritsa is typing people." "I went to the nursery today." "I AM doing this that or the other thing."
Se in the Static: "your 'experience' and credibility means very little to me right now."
not my actions or the pattern of consistency within my actions, but my "experience" and credibility and what that means to you (subjective qualifier) means little. So my actions did not determine what I mean, which is I type, that is my action, but how what I do relates to YOU.
He was upset that I tried to type him, but he was never "you're not good enough" attitude with me. That is the difference between LSI and LSE. I AM good enough is not one way than in the potential of another way and I certainly am never made to feel as little as you make me feel.
I'm inclined to say that what you're saying to me in the above would in my normal circumstance grant you the card to get out of a friendship with me. Because, I don't deserve to be treated like this. I help people not hurt them. If by typing you LSI I am somehow hurting you than fair be it. I'll type you ESFj or ESTj, just don't talk to me or engage with me because the same tone that you take with me in the above makes me very uncomfortable and makes me highly erratically emotional, I don't want that in my life.
Jedi is LSE.