Instinct |
Self-Preserving
Myself |
Social
All of Us |
Sexual
You and Me |
Drive |
The search for Survival
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The search for Community
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The search for Intimacy
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Focus |
Self
My World |
Group
Our Greater World |
The Beloved
Our Intimate World |
Desire |
Desire for Security
Well being
Food Comfort Safety
Protection Conservation |
Desire for Group
Social Acceptance
People Recognition
Popularity Honor Status |
Desire for Mate
Pair Bonding
Affinity Closeness Wholeness
The other half The beloved |
Fear |
Fear of Not Surviving
Suspense Poverty
Illness Endangerment
Loss Annihilation |
Fear of Not Belonging
Loneliness Low ranking
Inferiority Failure Outcast
Alienation Isolation |
Fear of Undesirability
Unworthiness Letting go
Brokenness Incompleteness
Disconnection Invalidation |
Issue
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Living Issues
To be or not to be
How to be |
Relating Issues
To relate or not to relate
How to relate |
Intimacy Issues
To be intimate or not to be intimate How to be intimate |
Preoccupation |
Coping
Anxiety Mortality Health Diets Obesity Vigilance Safety Ease
Finances Nourishment Time
Essentials Sensuality Possessions |
Prestige
Fellowship Events Cooperation
Admiration Pecking Order Clubs High Ranking Superiority Glory Causes Companionship Fame |
Connection
Intrigue Encounters Rivalry Attractiveness Impulse Passion
The Best Friend Revealing Self
Eye Contact Union Glamour |
Strategy |
Caution or Self-destruction
Aggressive-Defensive
Logistics Health Fanatic
Constriction Accumulating
Conservation Hoarding Paranoia |
Sociability or unsociability
Approval-Shame
Philanthropy Misanthropy
Rigidity Companionship
Friendliness Enmity Achievement |
Abstinence or promiscuity
Power-Submission
Responsiveness Creativity
Imagination Searching Curiosity
Gender Roles Possessiveness |
Energy |
Conserved energy
Grounded
Somber Heavy Serious
Stable Consistent Solid
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Split energy
Cursory
Personable Superficial Cooperative
Superficial Inconsistent Rigid
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High energy
Intense
Playful Light Penetrating
One on One Passionate Lyrical |
Theme
Statements
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How am I?
I am my body
Am I secure?
I am invincible
I sacrifice for myself
I must make it on my own |
Who am I?
I am my group
Am I popular?
I am considerate
I sacrifice for the group
We can make it if we all cooperate |
What am I?
I am my relationship
Am I attractive?
I am powerful
I sacrifice for the relationship
You and Me against the world |
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1 Anxiety, worry, expectation |
1 Rigid, non adaptable, righteous |
1 Zeal, jealousy, rivalry, heat |
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2 Entitlement, me first, privilege |
2 Ambition, aspirations, devotee |
2 Seduction, aggression,assault |
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3 Security, accumulating, scarcity |
3 Prestige, achievement, accolades |
3 Masculine or feminine role, ideal |
Enneagram |
4 Dauntless, tenacious, contained |
4 Shame, honor, rejected elitist |
4 Competition, hatred, idolatry |
Point |
5 My home, my castle, hideout |
5 Totem, identity, secret societies |
5 Confidence, trust, supreme love |
Concerns |
6 Warmth, affection or rejection |
6 Dutiful, fellowship, social enforcer |
6 Strength & beauty, provocative |
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7 Chosen family or group security |
7 Sacrifice for group, martyr |
7 Fascination, suggestibility, charmer |
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8 Satisfactory survival, territory |
8 Comradeship, friends & foes |
8 Possession, surrender, devotion |
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9 Appetites, insatiable, collector |
9 Peripheral participation, anchor |
9 Union, merging, oneness,symbiosis |