Gilly and Park have amazing bromance.
Gilly and Park have amazing bromance.
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
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Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
IEI-Fe 4w3
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Originally Posted by Gilly
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
Not EVERYONE...I prefer "swinger bro"
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Originally Posted by Gilly
Awwww
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
Park, I think you're way to willing to be abrasive to be SLI.
Easy Day
[Today 11:37 PM] Radio: gilly thinks park doesn't give a shit about what anyone thinks, that's not how it appears to me, it appears like he has no idea what consequences his words will bear half the time and seems to unconsciously sever ties with people by being an asshole
[Today 11:37 PM] Radio: and then going, "welp, they didn't understand me anyway"
[Today 11:37 PM] Radio: but it's obvious from his posts that he craves human contact
[Today 11:37 PM] Radio: and that he's actually quite lonely
[Today 11:37 PM] Radio: i should say this in his thread but i don't like him
[Today 11:37 PM] lungs: ugh what fucking ever
[Today 11:38 PM] Radio: so i'm not going to
[Today 11:38 PM] Radio: actually, never mind, i'll copy-paste this in his thread
I actually think he doesn't really care, and for precisely the reasons you stated IMO. He's brash and not very good at knowing how he comes off, so, while he obviously care to some extent (everyone does...we all need human contact, relationships, etc), he kind of shrugs it off, and it's CERTAINLY not a major fixation for him to the point of motivating his primary enneagram type.
FWIW I think this phenomenon is actually rather common with 8s. But my assessment of park as an 8 goes much deeper than that, including things I stated earlier in the thread, and things that I can't really discuss without parkster's permission.
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
Also the phenomenon you describe of severing ties passively by not changing his behavior because people just "don't understand him" is common with Object Rejection types (2, 5, 8).
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
Hi Radio, thanks for your input. Now you can go stand in the corner with Maritsa.
And you won't. Fuck close-minded dickheads like Radio who think they can psychoanalyze people they haven't talked to once, or shown desire to get to know them better before forming opinions about them. You on the other hand, know a lot more about me than most self-appointed psychologist shitheads here, so your assessments would naturally be more accurate than most. Radio might not have the intellectual capacity to grasp this, I'm afraid.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Originally Posted by Gilly
I don't have a comprehensive picture of the Enneagram like you do, but from what I've read in the past E8 has never hit home with me. I have considered a 9 briefly, but the descriptions depicted it as a very shallow, indifferent type, with "mediating" abilities which I wasn't sure I had. FWIW, the ennegram descriptions I've felt the most attracted to (but haven't related to much myself) have been 7s, and I remember I thought that if I had an enneagram conflictor it would be the 2, or 2w3 more specifically.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Originally Posted by Gilly
Hey Park, I returned long enough solely to say "fuck you."
That is all.
What's up, nil?
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Originally Posted by Gilly
Also @Gilly, check this out:
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...ight=enneagram
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Originally Posted by Gilly
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
I'm flattered, but...why/how/what?
lol he doesn't seem to be that defensive to me, really...more that he doesn't give a shit what radio thinks and is being a reactive Fe-polr.don't make a type thread if you can't handle people giving their opinions about you without being a defensive shit about it.
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
Hmmm...well 8w9 is tops of my list for you right now, I think you are definitely in the Rejection triad and a Reactive type, which leaves only 8. I'd say read up on it. You have some 4 qualities but it doesn't seem to run deep enough for me to think you are truly a 4. I would consider 5 as well but 8 seems like a good fit overall IMO. You're not as expansive or stereotypically extroverted as a typical 8, but then you are sp/sx and an introvert which makes sense of that bit.
My short list for your E-type would be 8>5>4.
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...