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Last edited by Aivonaima; 10-18-2012 at 01:20 AM.
"Use every ounce of potential you have, raise revolution against what people expect of you, and tell the world this is not a rehearsal. This is the real me. And listen up, ‘cause it could be the most honest incarnation yet."
I certainly couldn't tell you had Aspergers at first glance.
You strike me Se/Ni introvert, Se-ISTj jumps out to me the most.
She's a weirdo but she's socially very capable. But I can still see the Asperger's in her. IME most Aspergers are not visible unless you know about the syndrome and know people who have it.
She's often very easily excited, moody and jumpy. She can be also shy, withdrawn and reserved.
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden
I haven't known anybody with it, so I'm just not attuned to seeing anything "off" that's characteristic of the syndrome.
I get a fairly strong IJ impression from her. In the video she takes a lot of time to formulate her ideas properly and expresses them at a fairly even pace. There's also an overall tenseness to her face, mostly in her mouth, that screams rational to me. Also the photo you requested she post reminds me of Chloe Moretz to an extent.
What the heck is this?
First of all, i think ADHD can be a bogus diagnosis given to children who are unable to conform to stupid constraints set by schools to make them behave like sheep when learning so the teacher can have an easier time controlling many students in a classroom. And you do NOT have Asperger's. If you did you would not be talking about how people view you, etc much less be interested in a typology theory about intertype relationships.
Just because you like solitude does not make you have autism. Autistic people have difficulty with if not total incapability to relate to others. I dont mean "relating to others" as necessarily being good with people, no. I mean the basic recognition of people being around you and interacting with you.
The gestalt i get from your video and photos are that I think you like "acting". You like being "dramatic" and edgy.
You call yourself aesthetic and focused on your looks/clothing, superficial, hanging out with "pretty people". Several other things in what you said also stick out to me as Se-ish.
IDK, i dont think you are SEE, because an Fi-creative would be more proud of her abilities to relate to people. I do think you are Fe-valuing, and Se-ego. So either SLE or LSI.
Your demeanor does seem a lot like Rachel Weisz, who is SLE.
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I think SLE or LSI too (leaning towards SLE b/c you say you're not Ip temperament).
I love your rabbit, and you're hot in drag.
Death to betas and you sound like Allie a bit.
"Professional diagnoses" can be wrong.
I'm a trained professional too. And like even you yourself said, you dont actually have Aspergers, you have a dx of ADHD "with Asperger features". That sounds like some professional was trying hard to pigeonhole you into a diagnosis that doesn't really fit.That's fine if you like having a label to blame your behaviors on, some people do like that.
Enneagram: 9w1 6w5 2w3 so/sx
I meant "Ij" I'm sorry!
Well all i'm saying is, i recommend getting a second opinion from a different "trained professional" in Finland. That is, unless you really like feeling unique with those labels in which case that's fine. You can also get extra time to finish exams which is a nice perk too.
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I get an SEI vibe from your videos aivonuna. I could be wrong, but a lot of the things you like seem Si related and you do appear Fe creative in your videos.
“We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.” Randy Pausch
Ne-IEE
6w7 sp/sx
6w7-9w1-4w5
Last edited by Raver; 05-20-2012 at 11:12 PM.
“We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.” Randy Pausch
Ne-IEE
6w7 sp/sx
6w7-9w1-4w5
All i'm saying is just because a doctor made a diagnosis, doesn't necessarily mean it cant be questioned, especially in the case of such a controversial entity as ADHD. Doctors can be wrong too, sometimes.Doesn't mean you shouldn't go to one, just means it's a good idea to get a 2nd opinion for a diagnosis that cant easily be proven, like with a blood test or imaging.
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So Aspergers don't think about how they are viewed. If I'd have any sort of diagnoses involving difficulty to relate to others, I would probably think a lot about how other's might view me as.
Sometimes I get the impression that many people think that in order to be Asperger you have to be a total social retard.
A straw man attack.
I asked her how can she relate to people. She said she feels like an alien without any hesitation. The options are:
1. I am lying what she said.
2. She's lying.
3. She doesn't know herself.
4. She doesn't relate to others and you don't know shit.
Guess which option I'm mostly inclined to.
Why can't that be Si-related?
Our reaction to your overtly apologetic reaction was "AWW!".
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden
The way her comment came across to me was that how you look dictates your status.
IDK, are you two thinking you are duals or something?
If both of you are SLE you could be identicals with is also a psychologically close relationship.
I guess SEI isn't totally out of the question, no. You just seem very EDGY, aivonana, much edgier than i would think an SEI might be, but heck i'm no expert.
Enneagram: 9w1 6w5 2w3 so/sx
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden
I don't think you mean any harm, WA, but you're coming off as pretty bitchy in this thread. It's fine if you disagree with the diagnosis she's been given, but to imply that maybe she's holding onto that label because she wants to be "special" or wants to use it for sympathy and personal benefit is really very rude.
@aivonua nainini I don't know what you are, but you're very cute in your pictures.
Johari/Nohari
"Tell someone you love them today, because life is short; shout it at them in German, because life is also terrifying."
Fruit, the fluffy kitty.
Johari/Nohari
"Tell someone you love them today, because life is short; shout it at them in German, because life is also terrifying."
Fruit, the fluffy kitty.
where are people getting Beta ST from? not that it's impossible but i'm just not seeing it.
Last edited by glam; 05-21-2012 at 06:26 PM.
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden
Johari/Nohari
"Tell someone you love them today, because life is short; shout it at them in German, because life is also terrifying."
Fruit, the fluffy kitty.
I did not know, but I can certainly see that.
No particular type can be called weak per se.
And, frankly, I don't know what is a weak person like. That's like saying that the overall variety of strengths are lacking in most aspects.
FTR, I don't consider her conflict-avoidant at all. She's very nice but she's straight-forward and demands the respect she is worthy of, unlike too many SEIs I know of.
What comes to her Si: I have never seen Si manifest in such ways. She's just filled with such strong inner sensations. It's amazing to see her being touched by something and -literally and metaphorically- moved so much. She can tell more about this if she feels like it. She's probably the most sensual person I know.
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden