ILEs and friends, family, and co-workers of ILEs, do most ILEs seem to downplay the importance of planning, scheduling things ahead of time, and being organized about future events, confirming things, and the like?
I know a few like this and considered it as a part of preferring to be lax about definite plans in order to allow for more unexpected events to come up but I also see it in dealing with obligations when multiple projects are going on in a given time frame and then forgetting about one thing or confirming or changing plans at the last minute.