Page 1 of 3 123 LastLast
Results 1 to 40 of 169

Thread: Sexual preferences of typology

Hybrid View

  1. #1
    ☁ ☁ ☁ ☁ ☁ Birdie's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2011
    Location
    Seattle
    TIM
    EII
    Posts
    920
    Mentioned
    45 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default Sexual preferences of typology

    I know that there are supposed romantic styles based on
    typology, but do you think that people of the same type,
    possibly same quadra, like the same things sexually?

    For example, all ESE's love giving oral sex.
    all LSI's love foreplay
    all EII's love getting their faces fucked.

  2. #2
    Local Hero Saberstorm's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2011
    Location
    Isle of Man
    TIM
    Robespierre
    Posts
    2,125
    Mentioned
    68 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    The theme was canibalism. Maybe the study of typology distorts normal preferences..
     
    God is most glorified when we are most satisfied in Him.
    - John Piper


    Socionics -
    the16types.info

  3. #3
    :popcorn: Capitalist Pig's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Location
    Colorado, USA
    Posts
    6,261
    Mentioned
    167 Post(s)
    Tagged
    7 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Saberstorm View Post
    The theme was canibalism. Maybe the study of typology distorts normal preferences..

  4. #4
    Local Hero Saberstorm's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2011
    Location
    Isle of Man
    TIM
    Robespierre
    Posts
    2,125
    Mentioned
    68 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    My bad. There was a thread here about who to put into a roast...
    Last edited by Saberstorm; 04-05-2012 at 05:40 AM.
     
    God is most glorified when we are most satisfied in Him.
    - John Piper


    Socionics -
    the16types.info

  5. #5
    Humanist Beautiful sky's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    Location
    EII land
    TIM
    EII INFj
    Posts
    26,953
    Mentioned
    701 Post(s)
    Tagged
    6 Thread(s)

    Default

    No. I don't. I like to be on top.
    -
    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

  6. #6
    Local Hero Saberstorm's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2011
    Location
    Isle of Man
    TIM
    Robespierre
    Posts
    2,125
    Mentioned
    68 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    No. I don't. I like to be on top.
    In previous thread, you said that you do not have sex with your boyfriend because you are saving yourself for marriage. I, then, should conclude that this is a preference stated without the benefit of experience? I only seek to understand...
     
    God is most glorified when we are most satisfied in Him.
    - John Piper


    Socionics -
    the16types.info

  7. #7
    Humanist Beautiful sky's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    Location
    EII land
    TIM
    EII INFj
    Posts
    26,953
    Mentioned
    701 Post(s)
    Tagged
    6 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Saberstorm View Post
    In previous thread, you said that you do not have sex with your boyfriend because you are saving yourself for marriage. I, then, should conclude that this is a preference stated without the benifit of experience?
    I'm 33 years old. I think those days are well gone.
    -
    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

  8. #8
    Local Hero Saberstorm's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2011
    Location
    Isle of Man
    TIM
    Robespierre
    Posts
    2,125
    Mentioned
    68 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    I'm 33 years old. I think those days are well gone.
    Ah, of course. You now have a sophisticated understanding. You are a modern woman.
     
    God is most glorified when we are most satisfied in Him.
    - John Piper


    Socionics -
    the16types.info

  9. #9
    ☁ ☁ ☁ ☁ ☁ Birdie's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2011
    Location
    Seattle
    TIM
    EII
    Posts
    920
    Mentioned
    45 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    This was a serious question, guys.

  10. #10
    ☁ ☁ ☁ ☁ ☁ Birdie's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2011
    Location
    Seattle
    TIM
    EII
    Posts
    920
    Mentioned
    45 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    No. I don't. I like to be on top.
    It was just an example. Do you think EIIs as a rule prefer to be
    on top or are sexual preferences beyond typology because they're
    so animalistic and uncivilized.

  11. #11
    Creepy-pokeball

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Hydrangea View Post
    I know that there are supposed romantic styles based on
    typology, but do you think that people of the same type,
    possibly same quadra, like the same things sexually?

    For example, all ESE's love giving oral sex.
    all LSI's love foreplay
    all EII's love getting their faces fucked.
    This made my day.

  12. #12
    Let's fly now Gilly's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2005
    TIM
    3w4 sx/so
    Posts
    24,684
    Mentioned
    95 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    I think sexual preferences are usually more ego-driven/based on life experience and learned attitudes rather than something more deeply ingrained like type. Sexual preferences change, types...probably don't.
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

  13. #13
    ☁ ☁ ☁ ☁ ☁ Birdie's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2011
    Location
    Seattle
    TIM
    EII
    Posts
    920
    Mentioned
    45 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly View Post
    I think sexual preferences are usually more ego-driven/based on life experience and learned attitudes rather than something more deeply ingrained like type. Sexual preferences change, types...probably don't.
    I agree. I think sexual preferences are an individual thing.

  14. #14
    Humanist Beautiful sky's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    Location
    EII land
    TIM
    EII INFj
    Posts
    26,953
    Mentioned
    701 Post(s)
    Tagged
    6 Thread(s)

    Default

    I like passionate sex. Talking dirty and foreplay. I like varied positions and don't like a man who likes one position (aka either on back just like a cold turkey). Umm....I think that covers my dual and I requirements in sex; I'm not sure about other types.
    -
    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

  15. #15
    globohomo aixelsyd's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2011
    TIM
    SLI 5w6
    Posts
    1,190
    Mentioned
    43 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    I don't like passionate sex.

  16. #16
    Olimpia's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2014
    Location
    Europe
    TIM
    So/Sx Introvert
    Posts
    7,958
    Mentioned
    717 Post(s)
    Tagged
    8 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by aixelsyd View Post
    I don't like passionate sex.
    What kind, then? Sweet and tender?

  17. #17
    globohomo aixelsyd's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2011
    TIM
    SLI 5w6
    Posts
    1,190
    Mentioned
    43 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    well... that's because you're Gamma
    Robotic sex is the best. I love it when my girl roleplays as C3PO.

  18. #18
    Hot Scalding Gayser's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2007
    Location
    The evolved form of Warm Soapy Water
    TIM
    IEI-Ni
    Posts
    14,943
    Mentioned
    662 Post(s)
    Tagged
    2 Thread(s)

    Default

    My latest thing is business men with black dress socks. mmm. I love to do naughty things with them in hotel rooms.

    DON'T SAY TMI. I don't like distance between humans. =( Share and care!!!

  19. #19
    Decadent Charlatan Aquagraph's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2011
    Location
    Continental Vinnland
    TIM
    OmniPoLR
    Posts
    3,961
    Mentioned
    127 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Sorry for advocating the stereotype but Ni egos give head often ime.

    And I might argue a bit further by stating that Se egos like to be on top.
    “I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden

  20. #20
    Robot Assassin Pa3s's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2010
    Location
    Germany
    TIM
    Ne-LII, 5w6
    Posts
    3,629
    Mentioned
    46 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by wookie View Post
    I love it when my girl roleplays as C3PO.
    „Man can do what he wants but he cannot want what he wants.“
    – Arthur Schopenhauer

  21. #21
    Park's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2005
    Location
    East of the sun, west of the moon
    TIM
    SLI 1w9 sp/sx
    Posts
    13,789
    Mentioned
    197 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    I like having my dick titty fucked.
    “Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”

    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly
    You've done yourself a huge favor developmentally by mustering the balls to do something really fucking scary... in about the most vulnerable situation possible.

  22. #22
    Park's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2005
    Location
    East of the sun, west of the moon
    TIM
    SLI 1w9 sp/sx
    Posts
    13,789
    Mentioned
    197 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Fuck you Starfall, I ain't old.
    “Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”

    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly
    You've done yourself a huge favor developmentally by mustering the balls to do something really fucking scary... in about the most vulnerable situation possible.

  23. #23

    Join Date
    May 2011
    TIM
    / / /
    Posts
    1,373
    Mentioned
    123 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Delta can be playful too.

  24. #24

    Join Date
    Aug 2011
    Location
    Moons of Uranus
    TIM
    IEI
    Posts
    629
    Mentioned
    2 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    Alpha - Playful

    Beta - Passionate

    Gamma - Serious

    Delta - old people
    I did a mini analysis a lot like this for the beta sex thread a while ago. Beta was passionate and the others r very close to what I wrote.

    Alpha was "Kinky" which is close to "playful", I've noticed SOME alphas get turned on by the idea making a baby during sex. R.Kelly's a good example (ILE)

    Gamma was "Erotic"..which is more grown up.

    Delta was "Sensual"... food, massages, diaper changing

  25. #25
    Decadent Charlatan Aquagraph's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2011
    Location
    Continental Vinnland
    TIM
    OmniPoLR
    Posts
    3,961
    Mentioned
    127 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    I like how some of you can just simplify and form a caricature instead of being retards waving the too easy, discussion killing NTR card.
    “I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden

  26. #26
    :popcorn: Capitalist Pig's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Location
    Colorado, USA
    Posts
    6,261
    Mentioned
    167 Post(s)
    Tagged
    7 Thread(s)

    Default


  27. #27
    Humanist Beautiful sky's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    Location
    EII land
    TIM
    EII INFj
    Posts
    26,953
    Mentioned
    701 Post(s)
    Tagged
    6 Thread(s)

    Default

    I love sex and all over the bed and all kinds of positions, and I squirt so that's a huge G-spot orgasm bonus for me and I love oral sex, 69, 99, 29, 39; you name the 9's I'm there.
    -
    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

  28. #28
    Creepy-pokeball

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    I love sex and all over the bed and all kinds of positions, and I squirt so that's a huge G-spot orgasm bonus for me and I love oral sex, 69, 99, 29, 39; you name the 9's I'm there.
    Yeah.... this goes in the box labeled TMI.

  29. #29
    Humanist Beautiful sky's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    Location
    EII land
    TIM
    EII INFj
    Posts
    26,953
    Mentioned
    701 Post(s)
    Tagged
    6 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Jadae View Post
    Yeah.... this goes in the box labeled TMI.
    TMI?

    My point is that I'm far from boring in the bedroom.
    -
    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

  30. #30
    Korpsy Knievel's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2011
    Posts
    4,231
    Mentioned
    33 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    My point is that I'm far from boring in the bedroom.
    Unless you provide videos this is just an empty boast.

  31. #31
    Creepy-pokeball

    Default

    Maritsa, we've collectively decided to rename you as Squirttle.

  32. #32
    Roro's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2011
    TIM
    6 sp
    Posts
    999
    Mentioned
    28 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    I love sex and all over the bed and all kinds of positions, and I squirt so that's a huge G-spot orgasm bonus for me and I love oral sex, 69, 99, 29, 39; you name the 9's I'm there.
    Freak.

  33. #33
    Humanist Beautiful sky's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    Location
    EII land
    TIM
    EII INFj
    Posts
    26,953
    Mentioned
    701 Post(s)
    Tagged
    6 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Aerorobyn View Post
    Freak.
    You have to enjoy it if you're going to have it, otherwise what's the point?
    -
    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

  34. #34
    Humanist Beautiful sky's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    Location
    EII land
    TIM
    EII INFj
    Posts
    26,953
    Mentioned
    701 Post(s)
    Tagged
    6 Thread(s)

    Default

    Purity exists in patriarchal cultures
    -
    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

  35. #35
    Moderator xerx's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2007
    Location
    Miniluv
    Posts
    8,001
    Mentioned
    224 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    It's a legit motivator when you're poor and lack birth control, which is where most of the world sits.

  36. #36
    Park's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2005
    Location
    East of the sun, west of the moon
    TIM
    SLI 1w9 sp/sx
    Posts
    13,789
    Mentioned
    197 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    ^ That has got to go in the memorable quotes thread.
    “Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”

    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly
    You've done yourself a huge favor developmentally by mustering the balls to do something really fucking scary... in about the most vulnerable situation possible.

  37. #37

    Join Date
    Dec 1969
    Posts
    0
    Mentioned
    Post(s)
    Tagged
    Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    lol nil. You are confusing emotionality with me being a really good entertainer. You're also being an asshole. I never said that I thought straight guys are really gay deep down inside. When did I say that? If I said something like that it was obviously a joke. I should have just kept my mouth shut it seems because what was intended to clear up confusion seemed to create more. *grin* And yeah that's what you heard vs. what I was really trying to say.
    I'm not confusing anything. You bleed Fe.

    Also, many of your posts that I have actually bothered to read implied what I said (or at least that a large portion of the "straight" male population is knowingly or unknowingly actually gay or bisexual), though the specific one I quoted did not.

  38. #38
    Humanist Beautiful sky's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    Location
    EII land
    TIM
    EII INFj
    Posts
    26,953
    Mentioned
    701 Post(s)
    Tagged
    6 Thread(s)

    Default

    LOL
    -
    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

  39. #39
    Creepy-pokeball

    Default

    Blurb~
    Last edited by pokeball; 04-09-2012 at 07:15 AM. Reason: bc maritsa sez to remove where I said, "maritsa333: I like my doctor, he's in and out in 10 seconds flat"

  40. #40
    Let's fly now Gilly's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2005
    TIM
    3w4 sx/so
    Posts
    24,684
    Mentioned
    95 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    I think you misunderstood a bit. But I get a bit uneasy sometimes when women talk about such. But I'm not really sure whether I pretend it or not.
    Its just plastic...

    Sent from my LG-P999 using Tapatalk 2
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

Page 1 of 3 123 LastLast

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •