I'm extremely late to this thread, but you SOUND like EII to me. My second guess would be IEE. Your communication style is exactly like what I've experienced with EIIs and IEEs time and time again.
❤ Probably ILI, or IE I/EIE/EII. PM me if you have ideas about my type! Ennagram 2w3 7w8 1w9. ❤