Hmmm... I don't think I know any male ESEs. I'm really tight with a female ESE, but I can't think of a single male ESE that I know. Maybe I've been mistyping some people! I'd imagine male ESEs are very different from the SEIs I know. Actually... my mom's boyfriend might be ESE. I've typed him IEE, SLI, and SEI before... but ESE could actually be a really good fit, now that I think about it. There was just nothing that set of my ESE radar because, well, my ESE radar is full of a bunch of very feminine stereotypes. Oops.
So, to answer your question, I might know a male ESE very well, but I never typed him as such before now.