basically what i'm trying to get at is that it all seems really arbitrary. socionics is real but sometimes conflictors get married. gravity is real but sometimes people float. whatever.

i just feel like people should admit that, yknow.. people are happy when they get married and then unhappy later. people change. we don't really have any answers here with this stuff. if somebody described their relationship as dual bliss and then 10 years later as conflictor hell, does that mean they were never truly happy? does it mean the person they married was never right for them? NO. it does not mean that at all.