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    I believe in empowerment, not 'compliance and subservience' which you "presume".
    You do not *truly* empower people because you fundamentally do not respect them. That's what its coming across like to others, it's this core empathy that you lack and any lack of empathy is always annoying no matter who it's coming from. People see your cheesy grin in that avatar and they want to troll you and light your skin on fire so you cry along with the rest of the human race. Sometimes all people need is an ear to bitch/listen to but you go straight for 'advice/fixer upper mode.' It's sort of a narcissistic self-defense mechanism to keep you from having to connect with people. My ex used to do that and it was a form of abuse to me. You become sorta that 'king of anything guy' Sara Barellisas sings about. It's like Buffy Season 7, the only reason why Buffy's empowering speech worked is because she tried for years after doing it the hard way and being a downer/trying to connect but failing. Your big 'advice givin moments' should be earned more or something.

    You can't be a business man and this "inspirational person" at the same time unless you somehow make it really big in Hollywood, which actually combines socialism with capitalism. You come off as phoney. Leave the 'advice giving' to the artists who aren't selling themselves out to a company that's known for scamming others and should have been shut down long ago.

    If you really want to be this dude that helps people and gives real inspiration, then I think you will listen to mine and Gilly's constructive criticism. Understanding how you emotionally effect others his *huge* when determining your own success. You do not want to piss off your customers after all, they are the ones that are always right because it is they who will make you the star, not the other way around.

    I will back off you for now because I don't really like tearing into people even though it's fun in the moment. I like to be gentle but the only way I know how to make you change is to tear into you.

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    Surving Socionics,
    Apostles of Socionics,
    Monkey Business,
    Socionics Harlequin,
    I Solved Socionics.

    I wrote them all, pretty good piece of literature and available now for free on 16types.info.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    You do not *truly* empower people because you fundamentally do not respect them. That's what its coming across like to others, it's this core empathy that you lack and any lack of empathy is always annoying no matter who it's coming from.
    I choose who I respect. And no, I do not respect the average person who argues how others should do things for them, and doesn't take responsibility to improve your situation. I can't respect someone who isn't willing to work. So if you get that vibe from me, you're absolutely right.

    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    People see your cheesy grin in that avatar and they want to troll you and light your skin on fire so you cry along with the rest of the human race.
    You have issues.

    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    If you really want to be this dude that helps people and gives real inspiration,
    That's not what I want.

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    then I think you will listen to mine and Gilly's constructive criticism.
    No. I think you give good advice, if I were truly trying to change your opinions here, or motivate you guys, but I am not.

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