I'm so stupid - help :(

[Absurd]

I'm the only one for him, his perfect soulmate and he's mine as well.

That's the spirit.

don't worry, true objectivity doesn't exist!

/Te-PoLR

Socionics doesn't exist. I heard that before.

[Kalinoche buenanoche]

How important and how difficult is to be objective... especially when dealing with your inner doubts and things you've been always afraid of. Everything depends on what we focus our attention on. Now, from the distance I think I could easily focus on something that could make me feel : I'm the only one for him, his perfect soulmate and he's mine as well. And I could easily immerse in self-doubts like I'm not worth happiness.
Maybe it's something that we should all remember...everything is relative so... keep cool. I'm going to repeat it to myself everytime the moment comes.

ditto

anyway,i would really struggle with keeping an open mind about someone obsessed with the modeling subculture so props to you.

[Ver]

It's not that he's obsessed . He doesn't care to wear fashionable clothes or anything - he's rather conservative (although careful) when it comes to clothes selection.
I think he's just an aesthete, he likes beauty in women and it doesn't mean she needs to have perfect measurments. Maybe I feel so insecure sometimes because he very rarely pays me compliments (almost never) and he's face is not that expressive so it's not always easy to read what he thinks. But I think it's not going to change so I'd better get used to that. You know, I'm a woman and I'm vain... so I like seeing admiration in my beloved's eyes .
Anyway it IS getting on my nerves that he used to watch Top Model. First of all I'm jealous, and secondly - this programme is just dumb.

[Suz]

Not to imply anything about your bf, but as far as I know, the only guys who like watching Top Model are gay. It's like part of the stereotype of a gay guy or something... This is in the US. Maybe Europe is different.

[Ver]

Not to imply anything about your bf, but as far as I know, the only guys who like watching Top Model are gay. It's like part of the stereotype of a gay guy or something... This is in the US. Maybe Europe is different.

Hehe I don't think he's gay or at least he's aware of that fact . He started watching this because everyone in Poland was making fun of Joanna Krupa and her American accent and he didn't know who she was . And then he liked that. He was watching this in my opinion 1. he likes watching beautiful girls and according to him he was laughing at their stupidity .
There might be some truth in each of the reasons

He's definitely Delta ST. My previous boyfriend was INTj and yeah... actually I could imagine him watching Top Model as well .

As for the clothes selection. My ex INTj was TERRIBLE at clothes. I used to buy all the clothes for him and mostly he would wear them without any objection. However, he was less conservative than M. and he liked weird clothes, sometimes he would wear something which was totally off and he sometimes didn't care if the clothes were dirty.
With M. dirty clothes or without a button - he would NEVER go out in such clothes. Once he made me sew his button because he wouldn't go shopping without one . He likes simplicity and cleanliness.

[mu4]

It's not that he's obsessed . He doesn't care to wear fashionable clothes or anything - he's rather conservative (although careful) when it comes to clothes selection.
I think he's just an aesthete, he likes beauty in women and it doesn't mean she needs to have perfect measurments. Maybe I feel so insecure sometimes because he very rarely pays me compliments (almost never) and he's face is not that expressive so it's not always easy to read what he thinks. But I think it's not going to change so I'd better get used to that. You know, I'm a woman and I'm vain... so I like seeing admiration in my beloved's eyes .
Anyway it IS getting on my nerves that he used to watch Top Model. First of all I'm jealous, and secondly - this programme is just dumb.

He sounds LII or something.