And don't forget he's been dumped and on the shelf for three years....maybe he's lucky to have YOU.
And don't forget he's been dumped and on the shelf for three years....maybe he's lucky to have YOU.
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How important and how difficult is to be objective... especially when dealing with your inner doubts and things you've been always afraid of. Everything depends on what we focus our attention on. Now, from the distance I think I could easily focus on something that could make me feel : I'm the only one for him, his perfect soulmate and he's mine as well. And I could easily immerse in self-doubts like I'm not worth happiness.
Maybe it's something that we should all remember...everything is relative so... keep cool. I'm going to repeat it to myself everytime the moment comes.
don't worry, true objectivity doesn't exist!Originally Posted by Pauluch
/Te-PoLR
That's the spirit.
Socionics doesn't exist. I heard that before.don't worry, true objectivity doesn't exist!
/Te-PoLR
ditto
anyway,i would really struggle with keeping an open mind about someone obsessed with the modeling subculture so props to you.
It's not that he's obsessed. He doesn't care to wear fashionable clothes or anything - he's rather conservative (although careful) when it comes to clothes selection.
I think he's just an aesthete, he likes beauty in women and it doesn't mean she needs to have perfect measurments. Maybe I feel so insecure sometimes because he very rarely pays me compliments (almost never) and he's face is not that expressive so it's not always easy to read what he thinks. But I think it's not going to change so I'd better get used to that. You know, I'm a woman and I'm vain... so I like seeing admiration in my beloved's eyes
Anyway it IS getting on my nerves that he used to watch Top Model. First of all I'm jealous, and secondly - this programme is just dumb.
Not to imply anything about your bf, but as far as I know, the only guys who like watching Top Model are gay. It's like part of the stereotype of a gay guy or something... This is in the US. Maybe Europe is different.
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He sounds LII or something.It's not that he's obsessed
I think he's just an aesthete, he likes beauty in women and it doesn't mean she needs to have perfect measurments. Maybe I feel so insecure sometimes because he very rarely pays me compliments (almost never) and he's face is not that expressive so it's not always easy to read what he thinks. But I think it's not going to change so I'd better get used to that. You know, I'm a woman and I'm vain... so I like seeing admiration in my beloved's eyes
Anyway it IS getting on my nerves that he used to watch Top Model. First of all I'm jealous, and secondly - this programme is just dumb.
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