Whose judgment about your true worth would you trust the least?
Option A) A man whose mind is like a tornado of ideas - ideas that he seems to have no technical skill to implement himself, that he truly seeks to make a part of reality by taking charge, (by calling all the shots) to make it happen. He seems to be unable to just hang out, he is constantly assessing how well you fit his agenda. Anything that he knows, he seems to assert that he is the true authority on, and is quick to correct you in front of others, but strangely he is less prone to correcting you when you are one on one, thus you think he wants to embarrass you.
Option B) A woman who refuses to follow the rules. In fact, she is defiant about restrictions. What she desires, she SHALL obtain. She demands that which is exclusive, and she SHALL obtain it, such as money, high rank or prestige. She instantly senses when others are defiant to her, and responds in kind. But strangely, she seems to understand exactly how other people feel and can demonstrate an amazing range of commentary emotions to match their subconscious needs - therefore allowing her total control of others. From this many people openly love her. You stand in her shadow and she loves that she has outshined you.
Who do you hate more? Why? Which one of these psychopaths would make you more neurotic if you had to spend time with them? Who can you block out of your mind easier?