Why are INTj men so hot?

[lemontrees]

I find that I'm consistently (very) attracted/drawn to LII's, much more than to men of any other type.

Sometimes I can type them immediately; a lot of times, though, I can't manage to type them correctly at all until much later, although this is changing. I'm really attracted to the dry wit, but sometimes it's purely physical and I haven't talked to the person at all (and, when I do, I find out that said person is LII). I'm wondering if anyone else experiences this sort of thing with their activity partners...?

My college boyfriend (and the only man I've ever been in love with) was LII, but that relationship ended disastrously, for many NTR reasons. But I do remember that the J/P divide drove us both crazy, and that neither of us were extroverted enough to balance out the other/draw out the other's capacities for adventure, although we had a really genuine understanding of how each other worked.

Also: related to other thread: LII men don't usually like to do chasing, and I'm the type that always wants/waits to be chased. It's like a disease.

...someone train me to go for my dual??

[Saberstorm]

NTR reasons? My urban slang is behind the times and all efforts at looking this up say it is Japanese for cuckoldery. Illuminate this. Go on tell us everything ...

[Creepy-bg]

NTR reasons? My urban slang is behind the times and all efforts at looking this up say it is Japanese for cuckoldery. Illuminate this. Go on tell us everything ...

NTR=Not Type Related

[DirectorAbbie]

LIIs aren't hot. You're delusional.

[Lobo]

LIIs aren't hot. You're delusional.

Abbie, you're so mean! . Both LII genders can be attractive and elegant actually. They tend to have this serious-sexy vibe because they are so logical and introverted, and tend to have elongated features.

[DirectorAbbie]

Abbie, you're so mean! . Both LII genders can be attractive and elegant actually. They tend to have this serious-sexy vibe because they are so logical and introverted, and tend to have elongated features.

When I see an LII, I think of my brother. That may be a factor.

[Desert Financial]

LIIs aren't hot. You're delusional.

Damn. Fuckin' rekt.

[Exodus]

Great question.

[Aramas]

I find that I'm consistently (very) attracted/drawn to LII's, much more than to men of any other type.

Sometimes I can type them immediately; a lot of times, though, I can't manage to type them correctly at all until much later, although this is changing. I'm really attracted to the dry wit, but sometimes it's purely physical and I haven't talked to the person at all (and, when I do, I find out that said person is LII). I'm wondering if anyone else experiences this sort of thing with their activity partners...?

My college boyfriend (and the only man I've ever been in love with) was LII, but that relationship ended disastrously, for many NTR reasons. But I do remember that the J/P divide drove us both crazy, and that neither of us were extroverted enough to balance out the other/draw out the other's capacities for adventure, although we had a really genuine understanding of how each other worked.

Also: related to other thread: LII men don't usually like to do chasing, and I'm the type that always wants/waits to be chased. It's like a disease.

...someone train me to go for my dual??

Maybe I'm weird but I always find myself doing the chasing even though I'd rather be the chased.

[chrys]

The better question- What makes LIIs more attractive than LSIs?

[Sol]

having polr S they are sick more often

[Bertrand]

lol ive noticed that about LII

they seem to experience weird and offbeat injuries/illnesses at a higher rate than normal

[Memph]

lol ive noticed that about LII

they seem to experience weird and offbeat injuries/illnesses at a higher rate than normal

I dunno about that. I don't get sick much, just the once-a-year cold. As for injuries, the worst ones I've experienced were a fractured finger from horseplay in high school, a sprained ankle from soccer, and a cut on my elbow that needed minor stitches from falling down some steps.

My movements can be a little erratic, but if they are it's because of a mild aversion to moving predictably not because I'm clumsy, my reflexes are pretty good (ie subconscious movements).

[WinnieW]

they seem to experience weird and offbeat injuries/illnesses at a higher rate than normal

Hmm. I'm prone to unintentionally cut my fingers or hands with any kind of tool that has keen edges. Does this count?

[golden]

Hmm. I'm prone to unintentionally cut my fingers or hands with any kind of tool that has keen edges. Does this count?

Please start here and apply the ideas more broadly to other kinds of tools:

https://mashable.com/2015/09/12/knif.../#u6VYeD_.HPqt

[WinnieW]

Please start here and apply the ideas more broadly to other kinds of tools:

https://mashable.com/2015/09/12/knif.../#u6VYeD_.HPqt

Thank you, golden, but usually I cut myself with other kind of tools and on the edges of sheet metal.
Some electronic components need metal casing.

[golden]

Thank you, golden, but usually I cut myself with other kind of tools and on the edges of sheet metal.
Some electronic components need metal casing.

Sorry to hear that. May I ask what you do that exposes you to sheet metal and electronic components?

[Pole]

Alphas in general do nothing for me, with the exception of male ESE's... and the initial attraction fades pretty quick once I see how quirky/eccentric they can be.

[The Reality Denialist]

I was in a bus trip once. Suddenly I noticed how LII and SEI had found each other.

Life has so many inexplainable mysteries.

I don't know if they attract their duals same way? Some ESE's get all hyped up by my unconventionality but SEI's are harder. It is like you need to analyze aloud around them. So I would imagine that LII's need to seriously let loose to lure their duals.

[Tallmo]

I have a LII friend

Many women have found him hot

He looks a little like Johnny Depp, that probably helps

[Hope]

If he looks like Johnny Depp hes probably IEI. That would explain the chicks too.

[Chae]

They look at you in a way like no one else could.

[Chae]

They have great fashion sense.

[Tallmo]

If he looks like Johnny Depp hes probably IEI. That would explain the chicks too.

Nope. He is a LII that looks like johnny depp

He is not like johnny depp. Just looks like him

You seriously dont think i can type my friends ??

[Hope]

Nope. He is a LII that looks like johnny depp

He is not like johnny depp. Just looks like him

You seriously dont think i can type my friends ??

of course. everyone could be wrong. unless you are God which I doubt. Anyway, JD has never look like LII afaik. I'd see him as beta ST too, but not LII. I was talking too about his facial features, not his personality traits.

[Tallmo]

of course. everyone could be wrong. unless you are God which I doubt. Anyway, JD has never look like LII afaik. I'd see him as beta ST too, but not LII. I was talking too about his facial features, not his personality traits.

I havent said that JD looks LII. JDs type is irrelevant. There is some logical misunderstanding between us.

[Hope]

I havent said that JD looks LII. JDs type is irrelevant. There is some logical misunderstanding between us.

I'll let you solve this by yourself

[Chae]

They're smooth.

[para]

This is not the first time i've blushed behind my computer screen.

[nyessss]

Give it like 50+ years and there will only be hippope

[idontgiveaf]

Lsi are hotter. Lii are nerds

[naiad]

I know a LII girl who is hot
LII guys are very nice and kind most of the time but idk about hot

[idontgiveaf]

Show me a picture of an LIi that is hot.. Girl or dude

[vesstheastralsilky]

Show me a picture of an LIi that is hot.. Girl or dude

Look up Google Images for young George Harrison or young Tim Considine.

Alpha NTs have Si at a very primal sexy attractive virtuoso level that I appreciate. Some more than others. The intensity I need most can only come from Alphas on this topic.

King Solomon was Alpha NT.

[WinnieW]

Why are LII so hot?
{secret uncovered}
Easy explaination: We radiate so much entropic waste heat from our brain activity, more than any other type. That's the reason why LII are so hot.

[idontgiveaf]

Why lii are hot?

They're intelligence.

Period.

[Hot Scalding Gayser]

Over 7 years too late but...

If you like a LII just show up and be around them and be flirty and the LII should ask you to if he has any sense to him. Encourage him to ask you out. Also I don't know what the big deal is with these heteronormative gender roles anyway- girls ask me out all the time. I don't think they are any less feminine or womanly-beautiful like for it and if anybody does, they deserve an anvil falling on their heads.

[Bertrand]

I'm not trying to knock LII. it probably has more to do with their subtle dual orientation than any real heightened susceptibility toward injury. by this I mean they have a way of broadcasting the Si issue via Fe that maybe only I tend to pick up on, but I have some LII in mind and it always seems like a mild but constant call to attention. it probably has just as much to do with me interpreting their actions. I would say the exact same behavior may not even register either to themselves as unusual or anyone else who doesn't pick up on it. in the end my comment may only be a reflection of my own idiosyncratic position. I think Jung was on point when he said "its cold outside, one man goes for his jacket, another intentionally foregoes his out of a desire to harden himself" the off beatness of the injuries may not be real injuries but a desire to accommodate themselves despite relatively minor discomforts and a willingness/openness to discuss it

[Memph]

I'm not trying to knock LII. it probably has more to do with their subtle dual orientation than any real heightened susceptibility toward injury. by this I mean they have a way of broadcasting the Si issue via Fe that maybe only I tend to pick up on, but I have some LII in mind and it always seems like a mild but constant call to attention. it probably has just as much to do with me interpreting their actions. I would say the exact same behavior may not even register either to themselves as unusual or anyone else who doesn't pick up on it. in the end my comment may only be a reflection of my own idiosyncratic position. I think Jung was on point when he said "its cold outside, one man goes for his jacket, another intentionally foregoes his out of a desire to harden himself" the off beatness of the injuries may not be real injuries but a desire to accommodate themselves despite relatively minor discomforts and a willingness/openness to discuss it

ok so this might be more about seeking the attention of the dual (or just someone you're attracted to?). I will admit to being guilty of that with a certain ESE but there's limits to how helpless I'm willing to appear in the Si department.

An example of something I've done (text convo), I don't remember the exact words but it was something like this

Me: I'M BEING EATING ALIVE SEND HELP *attaches photo of leg with hundreds of bug bites*
ESE: Is that your leg??!
Me: yeah... it was ok when I started heading out on my hike but I got swarmed on my way back
ESE: OMG lol, well now you know not to go hiking in shorts in the middle of bug season
Me: yeah I think I learned my lesson there

I didn't set out to get all those bites just for attention, but once it happened, might as well use it for something.

My mom's reaction would be a lot different, and I don't how much of that is because she's my mom as opposed to my friend, and how much is because she's SLI, but she's be all "How did that happen? Was there a lot of long grass? I worry about you when you go to these strange places without telling me. Did you get a lot of bites elsewhere? You should take a nice long shower and scrub your legs"

Like, ok, it happened, but there isn't really anything I can do about it, now you're just making me feel bad for causing you to worry. Often the best you can do to feel better is share laugh over your own misfortunes. My ESE friend gets that, but I don't think my mom does.

My ESE friend was also with me when I feel down those steps and cut my elbow. I couldn't see my elbow and it didn't hurt that much (adrenaline still kicking in?) but saw there was a fair bit of blood dripping so I jokingly say "well I can't see the cut but it looks like it's leaving quite a mess" so she takes a look. Then she asks me to move my arm back and forth so she can get the perfect video of how gross the cut looks as the flap of skin moves on and off the cut and the movement causes blood to ooze out, playfully reacting to how weird it looks while she's standing behind me filming and building up the suspense for when she's going to show me the video.
After she does we agree that the cut should get looked at and she agrees to drive me to the hospital and help out with a few little things afterwards so I can allow that arm to rest and heal.

Basically she's taking the hints that I'm mostly looking for Fe during my Si mishaps but she's still happy to contribute in the realm of Si if I indicate that that's what I'd like. I try to take care of my Si needs on my own but it's good to know that I can count on her to have my back if I need it, and maybe using ESEs as a role model for how to deal with Si myself.

[WinnieW]

I didn't have the impression this was your intention (to knock anybody), Bertrand.

I still improve my sensing functions. I tend to get better along with my from day to day, but I'm in my forties already.
I even start to enjoy hard physical activity, something I almost never did in my younger years.
...and I'm not that clumsy aonymore.

Seems like the positive aspects of aging to me.