No.Originally Posted by Aquagraph
I find EIEs to be the most willing to open an intimate topic in such a devious uncanny way. But that's not the reason I typed you as such. I will take a look at that thread later. I apologize for going off-topic again. I will try to add some of my observations later.
Hmm, I disagree Ryan, I think SLEs do that too.. Really just Beta I guess.
Thanks for the compliment aqua lol
Share your own preferences!
edited to add: maybe the girl on the receiving end doesn't find it awkward, it could be you over-analyzing it?
But, if you haven't done this, try masturbating before spooning. Might help?
Well...
I like sleeping sideways and with someone. If the girl is new to me and somewhat awake, I'd rather have her facing me. I like to look into people's eyes in the dark, especially when intimately close. Pupils dilate and all you can see well is the glimpse. Resting leg on her gives me a sense of power, ownership AND the sense I'm keeping her safe from the cold, cold world, even if just tonight. And I have a huge urge to do it. Feels wrong not to.
If the girl is new, I watch signals and react. If neutral or acceptive, I tend to get closer and maybe give a light innocent touch, as suggesting us to compare our hand sizes (good excuse since my hand is usually huge compared to her hand) or lightly surfing her back up and down with the tip of my fingernail in a way that might make give her some kind of tingling sensation. If I feel safe enough to get close enough, I observe the heaviness of her breathing. I might start talking to her and being playful and silly to see how she reacts. Humour is a good sign of relief.
After sex, I rest on my back, looking in the upwards in the emptiness, smoking a cigarette and, if ideal, the girl rests her head against my bicep and slightly surfs with her finger against the middle of my chest, looking at me. I don't really like cuddling after sex, I get easily "suffocated", but if the woman is dear and familiar to me, I'll be real playful and silly, just might start a pillow fight, start sniffing her ear in a tickling manner or the like. I feel like I don't have to wear the mask of a man, but rather I'd release the child within.
GOD I MISS MY EX
That's the best I can think, though it's quite suspicious to ecuse myself to bathroom for 20 minutes (especially if she knows that nothing else rarely takes me longer than 5 minutes in the men's room) and return with fresh scent of sweat and pheromones, smiling a bit too happily and rested.
IT'S NOT THAT EASY TO HAVE ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION! No, not a physical reason. I just like to sleep besides people who might not think of me in that way or whom I don't want to have experience any part of my sexuality. Not that I wouldn't like to fuck 'em, but if the feeling might not be mutual, I'd rather be on the safe side.
I have real trouble falling asleep next to attractive women unless I'm highly content with my VERY RECENT sex life. I envy thou.
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden
Wait, then perhaps I don't know what cuddling means. Cuddling for me = her resting her head on my arms-chest-shoulders, with the occasional kiss.
LMAO 20 minutes?? C'mon man, train that grip!! 5 minutes should be enoughThat's the best I can think, though it's quite suspicious to ecuse myself to bathroom for 20 minutes (especially if she knows that nothing else rarely takes me longer than 5 minutes in the men's room) and return with fresh scent of sweat and pheromones, smiling a bit too happily and rested.
Well, usually if I know I'm likely to sleep next to a woman I find attractive (and I'm single), I'll try to make a move on her much before we reach the bedroom.IT'S NOT THAT EASY TO HAVE ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION! No, not a physical reason. I just like to sleep besides people who might not think of me in that way or whom I don't want to have experience any part of my sexuality. Not that I wouldn't like to fuck 'em, but if the feeling might not be mutual, I'd rather be on the safe side.
I have real trouble falling asleep next to attractive women unless I'm highly content with my VERY RECENT sex life. I envy thou.
I don't mean to say this kind of approach works all the time. I remember how once a girl (a high school classmate) kind of rejected me when I made a move on the dancefloor. Thus, I thought "well, screw it, I'll sleep fondly and have a nice bike ride tomorrow morning when I get back home". Then during the night she came over half naked (more naked than half), woke me up, and I told her something like "WTF ARE YOU DOING I NEED TO WAKE UP EARLY TOMORROW". Needless to say, we didn't interact much for the remaning time we shared a classroom...
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
Cuddling sounds stronger somehow. Not sure whether I was clear. I meant that IF the woman is dear to me, I can cuddle and be playful. If not, it's just mostly an occasional kiss at most, resting on my bicep and so. And sometimes after sex, it's just me and my Xbox spending some quality time. The bitch can get a cab.
...If I hadn't added this sentence, would you have realized that I'm just making myself sound worse than I am? I'm curious, cos i have a tendency to over- and underestimate people's understanding.
Was this wise?
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden
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