Ok, seriously, my mating call is just being the way I am and what happens is that the, and I mean THE, LSE who likes me, usually a neighbor, friend, cousin, etc, will say things like "Maritsa, go to work, you're not rich, you need to bring home money." Hence, taking me out of the state of complacency or my deeply frozen empathetic emotional state of the moment, especially if that moment was created by a situation where I'm helping the LSE talk about their emotions, share their worries with me. I am naturally the kind of person who will let you, give you time to share your emotions, to pour out your feelings and because this is who I am, I don't jump to external activity, the next thing to do, when I'm involved in listening and helping you deal with your problems, giving you support, a friend, an ear. In this situation, an LSE, being the controlling authoritarians, decide they are done with discussing their emotional stuff with me and say "time for you to do the next thing" which may be go to work, do the laundry, etc. I let the LSE direct my activities, in their authoritarian fashion.
Love those LSE
Don't judge me, I did tell people that I'm good at doing Fi and I am.