Quote Originally Posted by anndelise View Post
Wouldn't it depend on if you were deliberately keeping it secret?
Yes of course, that's why I put the "secret" in quotation marks. It wouldn't be very good for your relationship if nobody is allowed to know about it.

Quote Originally Posted by FDG View Post
Ah, idk, I don't even think about loud love as something having to do with boasting with other people about your relationship.
It's a matter of taste, I didn't want to say that "loud" expressions of love are necessarily attention-seeking. There are certainly a many people who would feel constrained if they weren't allowed to show their love openly. But I handle most personal things very secretive, anyway.