EM type conflicts will kill a relationship before it ever gets off the ground. I've had friends of every type, but if their EM type is highly dissimilar from mine AND they have dissimilar values... forget it. The first sign that you don't want to hear what they are talking about and they immediately assume all you are after is... well...

It's hard to find a decent high confidence person. Most of them are elitists who demand that those around them aspire to meet the very heights of cultural expectation (e.g. being hip, classy, and tolerant of idiocy ("different views") especially in Western culture).