INFp/ENFj men: what's your opinion on being approached?

[Hemoglobin]

I'm interested in knowing how Beta NF males feel about being approached by somebody that has interest in them romantically?

Do you feel like it upsets your sense of manhood or do you appreciate it more?

How do you handle it when a woman is very sexually aggressive towards you?

Sorry if this is a duplicate thread.

[ScarlettLux]

What guy wouldn't wanna be approached though? Unless you're below average in looks or something...

IEIs would probably love it. But then again sometimes it takes away the fun of the chase for the men out there... I guess it really depends on how HOT you are

[Ave]

Personally I love it. I love the attention, and I do not see it as an insult to my manhood as I hate the gender roles where the man is supposed to do all the work. It seems unnatural to have one party do all the work. Im actually kind of initiative taking myself, verabally and emotionally, but not when it comes to acquiring somone physically. Thats impossible for me to do, so i appreciate someone who can.

Not that I would let the girl do all work for me, I would give probably more than I get as I naturally generous emotionally, just not good at "appraoching" members of the opposite sex, so when one appraoches me I am more than flattered.

[silverchris9]

I guess it really depends on how HOT you are

That.

[ScarlettLux]

Haha... not just guys, same goes for girls too. We humans are so simple

[Simon Ssmall]

What guy wouldn't wanna be approached though? Unless you're below average in looks or something...

I'd rather not be approached even if you are good looking. Sort of steals half of the fun that way and puts you in a position to respond somehow .

[Ave]

Sice when did this thread become about rape?

[NewBorn STAR]

Since victims were allowed to speak about their desires.

[Saberstorm]

I'd love to be approached by a woman. I even like the idea of a woman raping me. I think guys are a bit different than women. Quit giving me a hard on.


(I think I am an IEI...)

[rat1]

Its pretty nice. That's kinda what ESTps do. They just grab you. I'm not gona resist.
If they do resist its just fake, plow right through that bullshit.

[Cat King Cole]

And unwittingly, Crazedrat had unleashed the next epidemic of females raping men.

[JimmyD]

I absolutely adore those types of women!
Seeing as I hate doing the approaching, it is very much appreciated, an ego boost, and a real turn on, but I have had my fair share of very sexually aggressive women who approach me that I am just not attracted to (physically), it then becomes this whole thing of getting rid of them, 'cause they see what they want and won't let go, and I'm not willing to tell them to just gtfo, so I often have to go into stealth mode! haha! but I 'spose I love the attention all the same

[Creepy-pokeball]

I'm interested in knowing how Beta NF males feel about being approached by somebody that has interest in them romantically?

Do you feel like it upsets your sense of manhood or do you appreciate it more?

How do you handle it when a woman is very sexually aggressive towards you?

Sorry if this is a duplicate thread.

I'll pass. I approach others. However, we're all human. Hormones and each of our own hidden depths' can do what they wish to us all, regardless of type. However, it is likely I to say hello first to most anyone. Likewise, it is I that is likely to purposely not say hello if I feel it is appropriate. It is definitely among the many things that enters my mind first when entering a social scenario. Then again, 7w6's are people whores, lol, whereas INFP and 7 do not exist. However, an INFp 2w3 could, which would be interesting. I have yet to find one in person, but I imagine that they would be both highly socially adept, if intelligent, and very foward, friendly for an introvert.

[Reuben]

Everybody wants to be approached, but not chased down.

[Leader]

Everybody wants to be approached, but not chased down.

Exactly.

[strrrng]

no, people want to be trailed through alleyways without seeing their stalker so they can scream in earnest during the assault. wanting to be approached is more of a base reaction, like a dog, something too easy to manipulate to give importance to. but I think people like to be chased if they don't feel like they're running; most males actually seem to run in circles around females, which makes sense in light of the geometry of the sexes, i.e. phallic overlap is a radial line rotating within the sphere of feminine energy, its center point constantly displaced to be pursued.

[jughead]

A SLE told me that he can't stand aggressive girls who go out of their way to hit on him, even if they're hot. He says he views those kind of girls as trashy sluts or something. He also said that he hated girls that remind him of himself & that he needed a good girl to make him better & keep him out of trouble lol

Actually, I've noticed that SLE females are kind of the same way. I remember Joy saying that she didn't like persistent guys who pursued her & that she preferred to do the chasing herself.