IEIs/INFps are you fickle?

[betterthan]

Interesting! That swinging has been mentioned under the enneagram sexual 4 subtype. But as sexual second I don't relate to that (and my sexual is super prominent). Overall I have a very total picture of someone so my moods are pretty consistent, I always look for what there is to like in people so it's overall positive.

I can see how how that swinging would occur - for my own life I have family members who are very emotional - and who I can really enjoy being with or feel loved by and then who, through their own stressors and depressants, just act like dicks. Why do you think it is that you swing?

The IEI's I know in real life (well the two for sure) are VERY swingy, one probably has histrionic personality disorder or something along those lines though. They are both quite critical, sensitive and can develop strong dislikes of people and their behavior (even when it doesn't negatively effect them).