What do you think is the fifth best relationship type?

[DirectorAbbie]

Oh, the "you" wasn't referring to you directly; it was kind of a generalized "you"

DA, do you seriously not understand her use of the word "you" or are you just being difficult for fun?

Neither and/or both.

I take things as they are said, not as they are meant, and it's pretty offensive for someone to tell you what your relationships are like when they don't know you and are wrong.

[ashlesha]

youve been here reading posts about socionics for years...are you just now getting offended about this?

[redbaron]

I take things as they are said, not as they are meant

[Anglas]

I like activation, duality and mirror most .
Btw calm down Abbie

[woofwoofl]

Idk. People are cool.

DA, do you seriously not understand her use of the word "you" or are you just being difficult for fun?

Neither and/or both.

I take things as they are said, not as they are meant, and it's pretty offensive for someone to tell you what your relationships are like when they don't know you and are wrong.

I understand and somewhat agree I've got the same issue with "we" and when that word gets slung around carelessly; people get accused of things they never did, or get lumped into things they don't want to be a part of... aarrgg...

[redbaron]

I understand and somewhat agree I've got the same issue with "we" and when that word gets slung around carelessly; people get accused of things they never did, or get lumped into things they don't want to be a part of... aarrgg...

can't you people cut some slack. does everyone have to be perfectly specific and correct in their speech all the time???

And, I don't think Maritsa was slinging the word "you" around carelessly, in this instance. "You" is commonly used to mean "the person in question". WORK HARDER to understand WHAT IS MEANT, not only the specific words a person says. Sure it's their responsibility to communicate to the best of their ability but it's TO YOUR BENEFIT to try to see around little errors, inconsistencies and slip-ups (if they even exist and in this case they do not) for the higher goal of mutual understanding.

I don't know why this really got my goat, but it did. I feel like too many people on this forum PICK ON Maritsa. Sometimes she deserves it but usually, she does not. Stop it.

That said, I like you, woofwoofl, and Abbie, you know I like you too!

[woofwoofl]

I understand and somewhat agree I've got the same issue with "we" and when that word gets slung around carelessly; people get accused of things they never did, or get lumped into things they don't want to be a part of... aarrgg...

can't you people cut some slack. does everyone have to be perfectly specific and correct in their speech all the time???

And, I don't think Maritsa was slinging the word "you" around carelessly, in this instance. "You" is commonly used to mean "the person in question". WORK HARDER to understand WHAT IS MEANT, not only the specific words a person says. Sure it's their responsibility to communicate to the best of their ability but it's TO YOUR BENEFIT to try to see around little errors, inconsistencies and slip-ups (if they even exist and in this case they do not) for the higher goal of mutual understanding.

I don't know why this really got my goat, but it did. I feel like too many people on this forum PICK ON Maritsa. Sometimes she deserves it but usually, she does not. Stop it.

That said, I like you, woofwoofl, and Abbie, you know I like you too!

I like you too, and I like Maritsa, and I like Director Abbie, and I don't want any of you to feel thumped on by me

I agree with the overall message of this; it still feels rotten to get hit by a wild pronoun though, and I hope I haven't been responsible for doing that too much myself...