I think that Jane Fonda looked more ESI when she was in her twenties, but she looks Alpha now. Plus, I've never heard an ESI talk like Fonda did in that linked video. But I have heard older IEIs talk like that.
Anyway, regarding different realities, I have an LII sister who looked like this in HS.
https://imgur.com/SCHsPqj I also have a good ILI buddy who really, really wanted to marry her. So I could see there being a difference between what LIEs and ILIs might like.
I have an LII sister who loo