I didn't say I didn't like her. She seems nice and is pretty. I just need to know what she's saying.
Whoa. I found her facebook page. https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?f...type=3&theater < Nice.
Maybe I don't need to know what she's saying. Lol.
I'll be Odysseus to her Nausicaa on that beach.
Last edited by Adam Strange; 10-21-2019 at 11:34 PM.
I hope not.
I've actually trained myself to be attracted to ESI's, because I feel best when I'm around them.
I think my visceral, visual attraction is to my Imago, which is a blend of my LSE mother's face when I was 1-3 years old, and my ESI grandmother's face when I was just a bit older.
My IEI aunt, whose hair was red and who showed a lot of love to me when I was a kid, added red hair to my imago. But my mother was too harsh, so I went for a female SLI instead when I got married, because my SLI father was nicer. Cold, but nicer.
Some examples:
Resembles my LSE mother (when I was very young):
https://i.imgur.com/8iFkBhL.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/Iy2NesY.jpg
Resembles my ESI grandmother:
https://i.imgur.com/6jtVTQZ.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/fEx6T3h.jpg
My actual grandmother, when younger (in center):
https://i.imgur.com/MfbmfE7.jpg
Resembles my SLI ex-wife:
https://i.imgur.com/M3I7RZu.jpg
My actual SLI ex-wife (with red hair):
https://i.imgur.com/l4M7Wqr.jpg
We dance around what we want, until we find what we need. (And I think what I need resembles my grandmother)
Last edited by Adam Strange; 10-25-2019 at 02:28 PM.
I think my grandma is ESI too. I as thinking of how my dad shows some gamma traits, but overall... I would say more beta, especially when you see him in group settings. Could have been his mother’s influence, who, he has a lot of problems from ... and I have problems from my dad it’s coming more to light, lol... my dad is loving, but when he’s angry, it’s not pretty ... I may have picked up some traits there also though once again, highly unlikely my core type is Gamma. I notice gammas, including your grandma, often have a sharpness on their eyes... a steely or even beady look? Lol your grandma does have a similar vibe to mine. I will look through all pics on just a bit, attending another group this morning
I just realized you’re gamma too lol, so this will be an interesting response. Also my dad is probably bipolar so, I always wonder how mental illness plays into socionics. I know it can mask types/make people seem like types they aren’t in other systems
I thought I knew what I needed Adam, and I was wrong. Dude who fit the bill (I thought I needed), wasn't for me in the end. Maybe it was more based on wants... maybe if I could figure out my damn type it would help I would never write someone off based on their type, but it could maybe make me more aware of a certain type of person who could be a better match.
My other grandma by the way, I'm not sure what her type would be... she was VERY sweet, she used to sing to her cats, which she had many of, and one of them loved her singing and would come flying down from the boxes to stand on her when she'd sing lol. She died of cancer, refused to go to the doctor because she was afraid of them She was only 58. I believe my grandpa on my mother's side is now deceased too, but I never knew him anyway.
Grandparents in the pic I shared (my dad's parents) are still alive, and my dad is 66 so. Grandpa is in his 90's and still goes out playing cards and such. My grandma, potential ESI, has gotten a little out of it, but, she seems nicer lol
it usually helps me type my duals in part ....I'll be doing something, and some quiet stranger dude is super attractive, but I turn to study him, and it's not his objective looks...and it's happened enough times, I typically suspect. And eventually I come to type them esi while using many other metrics, but ...I mean, yeah...it's a thing