Do ENFps and INFjs need a "benevolent taskmaster"?

[Galen]

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I don't think anybody likes it when work is imposed upon them and they aren't willing to do it. I mean, I really do like it when the other person knows what he wants in life, but for him to impose that desire upon me when I have no interest in the direction he wants to go in sounds miserable. That just sounds like a somewhat unhealthy version of my dad, who liked to impose his own work upon my brother and me.

[Slacker]

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I don't think anybody likes it when work is imposed upon them and they aren't willing to do it. I mean, I really do like it when the other person knows what he wants in life, but for him to impose that desire upon me when I have no interest in the direction he wants to go in sounds miserable. That just sounds like a somewhat unhealthy version of my dad, who liked to impose his own work upon my brother and me.

Yeah I don't like taskmasters and I wouldn't be comfortable or stay in a relationship that involved someone imposing work upon me.

I could work with my husband but I wouldn't let him be my "taskmaster". We'd be an equal team or we wouldn't be.

[Kim]

I could work with my husband but I wouldn't let him be my "taskmaster". We'd be an equal team or we wouldn't be.

[Kim]

@thread buhhhhh

I don't think anybody likes it when work is imposed upon them and they aren't willing to do it. I mean, I really do like it when the other person knows what he wants in life, but for him to impose that desire upon me when I have no interest in the direction he wants to go in sounds miserable. That just sounds like a somewhat unhealthy version of my dad, who liked to impose his own work upon my brother and me.

Same. It even sounds miserable to impose a desire, strategy, etc. on me when I want to go in that direction.