hmm, you sure that you seeking sympathy in the world isn't simply a manifestation of our dual-seeking function rather than manifestation of your EM type? As far as I know this function produces periodic strong emotionalism in LIIs especially LIIs lacking on Fe supply and causes them to 'go emo' as some logical types call it. Here is an entire article that covers this :
http://www.typologycentral.com/forum...rior-itps.html