I don't recommend it. unless there's a really good chance of things working out. because if it's doomed to failure for whatever reason, it hurts more than normal. you stand to lose so much.

I guess B&D would say that you should always remain open to being hurt and that's part of life. And I agree with that in theory. But it also takes a lot of energy to recover from a broken heart. And, life is short. Well, it's long. But it's also short. And maybe there are other things to spend energy on.

A dual is good for personal growth so maybe in the end you can rationalize that it wasn't for naught. After all, something doesn't have to last forever to have been worthwhile.



why is there a hello kitty smilie?