fwiw (not much), my ESE husband would never order for anyone. He always asks people what they want and gets antsy when they can't decide. Refuses to make the decision himself because he doesn't want to be responsible if it's later deemed a bad decision. This goes for everything, not just food. Everything from what color we paint the walls to where we go on vacation to what kind of car to buy. It's the anxiety of an E-6 maybe too.