I get along with all very well but the least well with my brother who is SEE type. My mom is ILI, she's the profit who constantly tells me what to do and what will happen if I don't do it. My father is SLI, LOVE BOTH MY PARENTS, HE WANTS LOVA AND ATTENTION, typical delta ST
my sister's ESE, very motherly and caring, but my favorite of them all is my love my LSE cousin. My brother and I don't step on each other's toes or business and there's a huge psychological distance between us, meaning we go to work, come back home, each one of us does our own thing, he doesn't listens to me... Take for instance him staying with me. Before he moved in he scanned the whole house and obviously saw how clean I keep it now the home is dirty and it's as if he doesn't care or have a concern; when I ask him to help clean, he only does bear minimum of work and then doesn't care if you're comfortable with it, in fact he just doesn't take instructions because he must only pursue things that are pleasant to him and whatever interruptions to that are boring to him; the best way to deal with him is to tell mom, his dual to say it to him or to not tell him and spare oneself the headache because he will do what he wants anyway. Arg...he will supervise my Se in controlling all sensory things... Moves the order of things I put things in, make disturbing and loud noises when he wants, say things in the name of "reality" even if it lacks empathy..."you're anorexic" these real observations of me are annoying because I can't help it if I'm thin, I eat ok enough. You can tell it bugs me. I'm often afraid of crossing him although he won't do anything it's just that he's very assertive and I don't want to fight or waste energy on small nonesense. I let him move in to save money, but he won't because as soon as he has it spends it on pleasurable things, eating out, nice clothes, etc so my mom and I talked and I've decided that whatever rent money he gives me I'll save it for him to give it to him when he moves out because I love him and I want him to be well. How else can we help our family, the people we love, be established and worry free financially if we don't help each other? His small house and space controlling behaviors are not that big a deal to deal with and they are not permanent... I can see how an LSE would be annoyed by SEE...lack of organizational consistency is one of them
and not listening is the other.