Have you had sex with someone and found it was hotter than sex with your dual?
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Have you had sex with someone and found it was hotter than sex with your dual?
Sex with your dual isn't gonna be hot if they aren't attractive...
Well, there is something to be said for technique.
I am yeah. Fairplay to you for being so observant. A few weeks back I needed to bear my soul and it just felt easier to do so anonymously, you know like how it's easier to be honest with a stranger than a friend sometimes. It was a bit duplicitous of me I know, I just didn't see the point of saying anything. I didn't think anyone would care or even know who humblepie was. I'm going to stick with this username though. Humblepie is a bit lame, not to mention a lie since I wasn't very humble at all was I?
Duals are always the hottest for me too.
My illusionaries (entps) and me are also very compatible, but more in the 'cuddle' way. Not as passionate and intense as an estp, but still very romantic and affectionate.
Semi-duals, would probably also be good.
Any harmonizing type would be the best.
Yeah, it makes me think it must be an inbuilt biological preference to help our species to be more balanced.
So who are the two who voted for someone other than their dual? Have these people actually had sex with a dual? Because if they haven't then their answers don't apply at all.
i was one of them. i think the guy i lost my virginity to might have been my dual, and that was a really lame experience for probably not type related reasons. anyway, i'm not even sure about his type.
i guess you could say that makes my answer "non-applicable," but then wouldn't everyone's answers not apply if they haven't had sex with each one of the 16 types, just to be sure?![]()
...do you think we should experiment with this?
Duality matters. I don't think I ever mean to have sex with an ENFJ again... it's too painful.
It matters if you make it matter in your mind; if you think that because someone is a certain type they will, therefore, fulfill everything for you.
It's kind of like those that believe, even if their spouse is 'mean' or 'uncaring', especially the male stereotype - at least that's how they are supposed to be, or that's what a "Man" is supposed to be like.
Just be careful about what really is fulfilling you, and not just what is theoretically supposed to.
is porno realistic? not likely for average people. jack and miri make a porno is a prime example of two people having great sex but to onlookers its boring - i think that was a major point in the movie - it was real sex, no glamour. great sex can be meaningful as well as explosive. i've only had sex with my duals and activity but i've never had meaningful sex which i feel i'm missing out on.
I posit that it's less about 'duality' than it is about actual depths of understanding someone else in an intimate way, and also providing for them what they raelly want even if they don't know what it is ; it's about fulfillment.
Good sex, also, imo, is beyond 'technique', and about emotional and mental depth - the physical is just an expression of that. Or at least that's what has really floated my boat the most.
non dual, my conflictor :-)
ESE-Si, what a whore she was.
most duals I had were quite boring. Ofcourse nobody believes this but it is true. I guess I had bad luck..
Agree with Ryu on this one. Mental connection is more important for me.
Haven't had any sexual activity with a dual yet.
Will have to get back to this thread when (if) I do.
EII - Ne
5w6 sp/so/sx
i don't know i'm not able to identify female people, they are complicated...