So really, the ONLY benefit to being with your dual

[Creepy-male]

The problem with living life is you do risk pain, you risk people making fun of you, treating you like shit- in order to find your true love. People in glass houses shouldn't throw so much stones, yo.

I'd say all those things are actually symptoms of not living life just as you are.

It's an undertaking that requires the wisdom to apprehend the merit of such an existence, the courage to resist the crabs in the bucket who would pull you down out of spite and envy, and the pride to mediate between your own path as an individual and the need to negotiate with greater society.