Haha, tag team! Make sure to post and I'll chip in too, maybe, except it's just lunch in my case.
EDIT
Though I'm basically not exactly optimistic for the long-term prospects of any Identity relationship. I hear there's just a lack of cohesion, even if things don't go badly, per se.
Having just come out of a painfully semi-platonic Dual relationship, I'm painfully aware that no other intertype is likely to replicate the really intense gravity and great chemistry that I understand is characteristic of Duality. (I don't count infatuation, since that is not an intertype )