Quote Originally Posted by Blaze View Post
good suggestions all around. my problem is motivation. i can't seem to get moving. guess i'll just have to talk myself into action.
IME it's that attitude of shouldyness that is so bad for you. Like I said, try turning that sense of "I have to do BLAH" around into "Tackling BLAH can be fun". The more anyone feels obliged or pressured to do something, the less likely they are to do it, basically.

Go easy on yourself in other words If you don't want to do something, you can't make yourself.