The thing with Victim/Aggressive is they kinda can seem the same, but you can kinda get the feeling that they actually are looking for different things.
Victim doesn't mean you lie on the ground with your legs spread waiting for someone to come rape your stupid ass, it just means that you like to put up a bunch of obstacles for people to fight through to get to you, and you are (many times) trying to "test" the character of the person you are with to make sure that they can actually deal with shit in the real world. It is kinda like a cat/mouse thing, as the Victim provokes and the Aggressor walks through. Victims are sort of passive agressive...although I don't wanna say that because it really applies to many people....but the thing is that they can turn love into a fight, but a good fight. They are constantly looking for weaknesses, testing, drawing back, provoking, etc.
Think about pissing someone off just to get some life into a relationship, and cure some of the monotony, that kinda thing. I think...
(I am remembering something about the "Tyranny of the Weak" by some hermit ****** Neitcheezy....but same idea.)
Anyway, here is some "official" information...
She wishes to test on herself its force, to resist to his impact, to feel a victim.
In love games prefers the different forms of an antagonism kindling passion of the partner.
In women of this type are at times immanently inherent masochistic features.
In attitudes with the woman he subconsciously expects orders, dirty tricks, reproaches. involuntarily provokes their display.
Plays on the weakness, vulnerability or a disorganization, provoking...
Infantile and Careful is more...serious?...caring?.... (boring)