Thanks a lot for these compliments, honey. The greatest problem with women to me is that I cannot find one who values Fi like EIIs do, it´s their language, totally.Originally Posted by Maritsa33
I enjoy this aspect of my duals, their humor is highly entertaining, even though I can see how it has many ethical slips in it (blunt, offensive, etc), but I can recognize when certain things have gone too far. Fi is able to recognize those lines between good/bad in a evolving/subjective and adaptive way. Once I know that you're a good person and what you say is not meant to hurt or harm any one I adapt to your ways and let you be who you are and promote social bonds. For instance, I'm able to ease the tensions of others who get offended by ESTj's bluntness/gruffness by communicating to them that that's just your type of humor, keeping your friends close by you (making sure they don't get offended and cut relations with you); helping you promote good social bonds.
In duality, you're supposed to be you and your dual accepts you as you are, but is able to take full benefit from those special abilities that you have...Te for me, Fi for you.
I'm very happy and content to be duals with such wonderful, sensitive, smart, organized, logical duals; You
Often when I get to know and start to like some woman I´ll be secretly sad if I see she´s being kind of cold or even cool, I´ll take that as bad, as not fulfilling, or as hostile. Like yesterday night I met this interesting woman, nice and upbeat, charming seducing, perfect body, and we slept together. When we talked on the phone after I came back home and had my day and she had hers it was okay, but I see clearly she´s Fe-valuing and sees Fi as kind of unnecessary. She´s probably an ENFJ, and I´m totally sure she´s an E3w2.
A relationship like this can be kind of interesting because Fe-leading women usually get my Fe-role function activated so I get more upbeat and excited about life in general, out of my too rational and serious mood. But there´s the lack of Fi there and my seriousness and not being very cheerful (which is Te + devalued Fe) and not very upbeat can make Fe-leads to think I´m a boring person, or just too serious and with a bad mood - which is unfortunately quite true, although people who can see my intentions, character and inner concerns will find me a noble and good-hearted person, like EIIs, because they can clearly read myself, like an open book, getting at who I really am below the surface of a serious, methodical, demanding and at times domineering person.
Here where I live most EIIs - and deltas in general - are too aristocratic in the sense of having too many prejudices and caring too much about social status and money. Most EII girls - but not all - I have met here are like this, they care too much whether you´re a rich guy or whether you´re doing something which can get you rich, where in society you´re at. I think Deltas in general care too much about social status and can be these kind of arrogant people.
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u r so cute.
