I am dating an ISTJ. She is a wonderful person. She taught me the value of money, being systematic, timely, productive, etc. etc.
Because of her, I actually enjoy musicals and actually get a kick out of decluttering the mess around me.
On a personal level, couple of things bother me. Despite their obsession with honesty, they twist truths and spin it to their favor...just to prove they are always right. Why is that?
I could be in the middle of a conversation with my ISTJ gf holding her hands...and if a good looking guy happens to pass by...her eyes just follow him...totally ignoring me. Now my question is...is this a universal feature of ISTJs? And should I be all worked up about this? And ofcourse if I ask her why do you stare...she will give a logical "white lie" to cover up.
I do know she cares for me...since we've spent so much time and we do have "history" together. It worries me however that she turns her love "on and off" like a faucet.
If she behaves like this now...will this continue after marriage?