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    Default What is sex like with ESTj women

    As far as I now, I never had sex with an LSE woman, although I recall one over 20 years ago, but that's too long ago to be certain about her type.

    So what is sex with LSE women like? Individual differences ignored, what do they expect from sex, what do they like both physically and psychologically, what makes them happy in bed?
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    Quote Originally Posted by timewaster View Post
    i think they are typically the ones to expect candles n stuff ;D
    not really.

    I have dated an LSE girl. Sex was boring. She kept her eyes really focussed (she said she needed control) She did not show much initiative. And I read about the sex experience in a subtype description (LSE-Te), which stated as something like ordinary etc, and that's what it was exactly. Booooring.

    edit: and what makes them happy in bed... Well she said she liked it when a guy 'took the time for her'.

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    Oh, look. An LSE thread I have nothing to contribute to. Oh, well.

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    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    Oh, look. An LSE thread I have nothing to contribute to. Oh, well.
    what? are you a virgin? I thought you were 18 years old...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    what? are you a virgin? I thought you were 18 years old...
    I was. Now I'm 19.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
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    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    I was. Now I'm 19.
    Am I allowed to put that in the Quotes Hall of Fame? That was epic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    I was.
    A virgin, or 18?
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    She'll direct your efforts and make you work hard.
























    Then sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    edit: and what makes them happy in bed... Well she said she liked it when a guy 'took the time for her'.
    Sounds like one way traffic... or someone who read too much chick lit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by consentingadult View Post
    Sounds like one way traffic...
    correct.

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    yeah that's the impression I get when I watch LSE porn online

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    Quote Originally Posted by jxrtes View Post
    She'll direct your efforts and make you work hard.

    Then sex.
    This reminds me of a former GF, I'm starting to wonder now...
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    Quote Originally Posted by timewaster View Post
    i think they are typically the ones to expect candles n stuff ;D
    Been there, seen that, done that. Not my cup of tea.
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    Both LSE and SLI try to compensate their lack of Fe with Si. They try to be appealing in a Si way (dressing nicely, etc.) but are very limited when it comes to the emotional range and creativity. I wouldn't say boring but their style is a bit stiff for some.

    If they get a Delta NF feel comfortable, be sure that their Ne is going to get wild and intense. I do remember a friend of mine (SLI) telling me that there was an older woman (likely IEE) flirting with him at work. When I asked him a month later how things went, he told me that he "couldn't keep up with her". So as you can see, from theory you might get the impression that it's the sensor the one leading the sexual life but in practice, the NF is the one perverting the ST most of the time.

    A fictional example of this is Malcolm in the Middle where Lois (LSE) and Hall (EII) manage to sustain the relationship despite many problems out of the fact that Hall is a great lover in bed.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mikemex View Post
    Both LSE and SLI try to compensate their lack of Fe with Si. They try to be appealing in a Si way (dressing nicely, etc.) but are very limited when it comes to the emotional range and creativity. I wouldn't say boring but their style is a bit stiff for some.

    If they get a Delta NF feel comfortable, be sure that their Ne is going to get wild and intense. I do remember a friend of mine (SLI) telling me that there was an older woman (likely IEE) flirting with him at work. When I asked him a month later how things went, he told me that he "couldn't keep up with her". So as you can see, from theory you might get the impression that it's the sensor the one leading the sexual life but in practice, the NF is the one perverting the ST most of the time.

    A fictional example of this is Malcolm in the Middle where Lois (LSE) and Hall (EII) manage to sustain the relationship despite many problems out of the fact that Hall is a great lover in bed.
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    I heard they have dicks on their vaginas.
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    ewww I'll just quote a LSE I know out of a talk about sex and her EII - Ne husband (who was my colleague atm) > for you (him.) sex is something abysmal; for me it's ludic.

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    Well if anything like me...I know duals are sexually compatible.

    I'm kind of conservative as in I like to be covered up a lot of the time. I won't go to bed naked. I like the feeling of security when I'm wearing an underwear and plus some underwear feel good and is very nice looking.

    They love sex as I love sex. My dual cousin often expresses her frustration with her husband's lack of interest in it. Both of my dual cousins are married to mirror relations and they both aren't crazy about the relationships. They love to grope when no one's around and to get a positive feedback like kissing...biting maybe but not that hard. Sounds, yes, LSE are vocal in an animal like way...where's the turtle video (yeah, like that LOL). They like to do different things so they aren't all that borring but majority of the women take a sexual lead (on top lol).
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
    sounds, yes, LSE are vocal in an animal like way...
    are you trying to say this particular aspect is type related ?

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    Lol. I actually have wondered about this topic! I don't know why, but a few times I've tried to imagine what some female LSE friends of mine would be like in bed, out of curiosity.

    My SLI friends seem like they would be kinky, but the LSE's are so hard to read.

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