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    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly View Post
    1 is ENFP but could easily be seen as an Alpha Extrovert.
    until you read the alpha extrovert descriptions, then you can easely distinguish between them. But if you really think that 1 might be ESFJ then I find that extremely strange. The first line just screams Ne. It's almost litteraly what Ne encompasses.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    until you read the alpha extrovert descriptions, then you can easely distinguish between them. But if you really think that 1 might be ESFJ then I find that extremely strange. The first line just screams Ne. It's almost litteraly what Ne encompasses.
    Yes, but I think any Ne-valuing extrovert could easily identify with the description (although less so LSE than the other 3), both in terms of the particulars and the general impression of the kind of person being discussed.
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly View Post
    Yes, but I think any Ne-valuing extrovert could easily identify with the description (although less so LSE than the other 3), both in terms of the particulars and the general impression of the kind of person being discussed.
    Yes until he reads the other descriptions. You cannot only read one description and decide whether you are that or not. You have to compare and choose the best. That's the right method.

    Everyone can relate to something out of every description.

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    yeah, first enfp, second esfj. But most parts of 2nd could pass for ENFP as well.


    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    until you read the alpha extrovert descriptions, then you can easely distinguish between them. .
    where's the description?

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    Seriously, it' pretty clear that they are ENFp and ESFj respectively. I don't even know why people are arguing this point. The similarities you see between them are the same similarities you would see in socionics descriptions considering that ENFp and ESFj do look similar in many regards.

    IMO, the only descriptions which could be confused are some INTJ and INTP descriptions I've read.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Azeroffs View Post
    Seriously, it' pretty clear that they are ENFp and ESFj respectively. I don't even know why people are arguing this point. The similarities you see between them are the same similarities you would see in socionics descriptions considering that ENFp and ESFj do look similar in many regards.

    IMO, the only descriptions which could be confused are some INTJ and INTP descriptions I've read.
    exactly. I don't understand that arguing either. Probably because they just don't like to lose their face. Which is understandable. But you would be surprised how many people on this forum think MBTI descriptions are totally different, even describing totally different types.
    I agree with the INTJ and INTP. Those are most difficult. Though some MBTI talks about strategists when describing INTP. Which makes things more distinguishable.

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    I don't think it's safe to assume that everyone is going to be able to read a description and be able to see which one fits them best. I waffled between 3 or 4 types for years using this method, and there are plenty of people out there who are equally baffled by attempting to relate to a laundry list of generalized traits. Also I think people are very much prone to mistype themselves due to misconceptions of the functions based on having specific terms or memes attached to them.
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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    What it comes down to is this: MBTI types by dichotomies that are incongruent to the Socionics parameters of types. There is surely some level of correlation between the two, but saying that they are the same is entirely fallacious from both a theoretical and practical standpoint. I am a very clear Perceiving type in MBTI, but in Socionics I am EIE, a rational/J type.

    I would like to point out, by the way, the apparent correlation between believing in the equivalence of different type systems because of their "apparent" similarities while ignoring disparities in theoretical frameworks, and Te valuing (Ashton with Jung, phaedrus and Jarno with MBTI; they all seem to simply say "Look, it's obvious!" when really it's not at all, and they are wrong ).
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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    Basically my point is, while the two descriptions are obviously "different people," and they tend to describe similar people to their respective Socionics types, the combination of theoretical differences, people's subjective attachment to different terms/memes that are associated with different functions, dichotomies, etc, and simply the sheer number of people who type differently in different systems, make for a rather obvious case for the systems not being "the same," regardless of the overall trends in consistency or basic similarities.
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chloe View Post
    yeah, first enfp, second esfj. But most parts of 2nd could pass for ENFP as well.




    where's the description?
    The source is 'the act of speedreading people' of Paul D Tieger.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    The source is 'the act of speedreading people' of Paul D Tieger.

    hah yeah i have that book, that's why 1st sounded so familiar. but seriously, as soon as you hear possibilites in first sentence, it can only be N.
    The same as "the most extraverted type", -NOT ENFp

    anyway, I was asking for description of Alpha Extravert, that someone mentioned.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chloe View Post
    hah yeah i have that book, that's why 1st sounded so familiar. but seriously, as soon as you hear possibilites in first sentence, it can only be N.
    The same as "the most extraverted type", -NOT ENFp

    anyway, I was asking for description of Alpha Extravert, that someone mentioned.
    Well if you have that book, what is known as alpha extraverts in socionics jargon, they are
    ENTP and ESFJ in that book.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    Well if you have that book, what is known as alpha extraverts in socionics jargon, they are
    ENTP and ESFJ in that book.

    so ENTp=ENTP and ESFj=ESFJ according to you?

    I cant imagine ENTP and ESFJ (MBTI) in the same room, getting along.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chloe View Post
    so ENTp=ENTP and ESFj=ESFJ according to you?

    I cant imagine ENTP and ESFJ (MBTI) in the same room, getting along.
    Yep. As you can read for yourself, the descriptions are describing the same kind of people. I don't know where the myth comes from that the descriptions would describe totally different people...

    For your second question:
    There is a difference between what you expect and how reality works :-)

    They get along perfectly. They have an activation relationship. Quick to establish, and very friendly, good understanding, energizing and mutual attraction. This happens to all people who meet their 'activation' type.

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