EII-SLE Conflict Relations (INFj & ESTp)

[necrosebud]

I don’t really want to get close to them (it feels like it might be impossible for me to get close to an Fi PoLR type anyway). I have noticed Fi PoLR types can react strongly to normal Fi use, as I’m sure is true for me to Se. My dad, who is Fe PoLR, is a good example - he amplifies any perceived “tone” that people have or sometimes might not even have, after which he becomes indignant (E1). So neutral stuff can elicit a strong reaction with PoLR after which the other person now truly can become “negative” (when you’re dealing with conflictors). Se seems to give me nightmares anyway and I just don’t see the point in all this. I don't want to upset/"hurt" or stress anybody out because of my primary function either, which is partly why I maintain some psychological distance from my supervisees.