As in any conflicting IR INFJ will get: no good support for 3rd block functions, as values are opposite - behavior of the opponent will be thought as inadequate and unacceptable, no trust, psychic exhaustion. ESTP gets same. Both understand clearly weak points of themselves and feel like shit. ESTP feels shame, anxiety, depressive mood, may run away in escapism and stay less at home, then ESTP just will find sex relations outside as there will be less moral responsibility and pressure.