Hmm... I felt like I should respond but I assume you have read alot about duality already, so you know why it is supposed to be good.
It's the only compatible relationship, really. Socionically speaking
So with LIIs (activation) I automatically start to produce
but it's never enough, and I never manage to cheer them up as much as I want. Then the phone rings and my LII friend answers. It's his ESE cousin, and immediately his voice changes, he gets in good spirit. But it's ok, but trying to provide creative
to LIIs is doomed to drain me. (This all is something that just happens, I usually don't think about it.)
With ILE we sometimes get into some
origie, - it feels like we are very sensitive to this - especially in the beginning, but then things even out. I stop using so much
and relax. I connect to the ILE and she can in a way control my
. She will get it when she needs some, but not necessarily all the time. (lol, this sounds like breast-feeding). I see this as a point when dualization starts, when the dual starts to control my creative function, not myself. This is of course only my own understanding of this, but that's how it feels.
Dualization is very important. If it doesn't happen, then things get stagnated and boring. There can be psychological barriers that have to be broken. Staying physically close to your dual is very important, sharing everyday life, and also possibly conflicts. It's very easy to lose a dual by simply forgetting to call them or something and then you just never meet again, they give you so much freedom. It's important to follow your instincts. Duality is a different form of attraction.