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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    The important thing about Fe poLR is that they don't know or can not preceive with accuracy how their emotional display is being thought of or interpreted by others. This makes them display too much and when they do they are rather uncomfortable about having it put on display. Vixen, when she expressed her emotions about her BF and the troubles she was facing in their relationship, appologized for her emotions/behavior.

    Fe dominants - Fe EJ - are keenly aware of the dynamic changes in others' external emotional responses and are proactive in steering them in the direction seen as optimal by the Fe EJ.
    Wrong. This would more likely be an Fe-dominant when faced with a non-Fe-valuer. So, an Fe-dominant may make an emotional outburst, use that keen Fe info processing to sense that the emotional outburst didn't go over well with the other party, and see the need to apologize. My ESE friend does it all the time.

    Fe-POLR can express emotion that doesn't correspond to the situation and at an intensity that might not correspond. They also wont be apologizing for it because they have a poor sense of whether it was appropriate or not.
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    Quote Originally Posted by WorkaholicsAnon View Post
    Fe-POLR can express emotion that doesn't correspond to the situation and at an intensity that might not correspond. They also wont be apologizing for it because they have a poor sense of whether it was appropriate or not.
    And will more likely than not maintain strict control over what sort of emotional signals they send off. This is how your PoLR works! It's a Super-Ego function, so you keep a tight control on how you use it to avoid being criticised, since it's a self-conscious weak point.

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    Long story short, an SLI would not be attempting to manipulate the audience's emotional involvement with the topic as Malia's opening post does. That is not Fe PoLR!

    Furthermore, an SLI would not have the posting history of Malia including at least one very emotional, very public venting spree (remember where she was wondering if LIIman was her Dual?). Fe PoLR would be paralytically mortified by the potential for backlash that that sort of spectacle might incite.

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    Isha and I had a good chuckle at this thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brian View Post
    And will more likely than not maintain strict control over what sort of emotional signals they send off. This is how your PoLR works! It's a Super-Ego function, so you keep a tight control on how you use it to avoid being criticised, since it's a self-conscious weak point.

    ETA

    Long story short, an SLI would not be attempting to manipulate the audience's emotional involvement with the topic as Malia's opening post does. That is not Fe PoLR!

    Furthermore, an SLI would not have the posting history of Malia including at least one very emotional, very public venting spree (remember where she was wondering if LIIman was her Dual?). Fe PoLR would be paralytically mortified by the potential for backlash that that sort of spectacle might incite.
    No, not always...

    They will appologize for them if they've made them online and can't read how others have perceived these emotional outputs.

    She's just announcing a situation; she's not manipulating any variables...excitement...even more proof of Fe PoLR...over excitement.

    Fe PoLR is inacurate and incorrect measure of display of emotions, over doing it or under doing it, but never precise or predictable...sort of hints at introverstion as well, or IP temperment.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post

    Fe PoLR is inacurate and incorrect measure of display of emotions, over doing it or under doing it, but never precise or predictable...sort of hints at introverstion as well, or IP temperment.
    right, but VDF manifests nothing of the sort.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Brian View Post
    And will more likely than not maintain strict control over what sort of emotional signals they send off. This is how your PoLR works! It's a Super-Ego function, so you keep a tight control on how you use it to avoid being criticised, since it's a self-conscious weak point.

    ETA

    Long story short, an SLI would not be attempting to manipulate the audience's emotional involvement with the topic as Malia's opening post does. That is not Fe PoLR!

    Furthermore, an SLI would not have the posting history of Malia including at least one very emotional, very public venting spree (remember where she was wondering if LIIman was her Dual?). Fe PoLR would be paralytically mortified by the potential for backlash that that sort of spectacle might incite.
    Agreed. Moreover, an SLI is never as verbose as vixendogfox has frequently been. they are succint, short, to the point. and you're right, never as emotionally injected as many of VDF's posts have been.
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