Jadae, both my Mom and my Guidance Conselor are ENFJs. I wouldn't say you are "manipulative". The better way I can descibe it is that ENFJs seem to exaggerate. I've seen my Mom do this, and when I point it out to her she admits, "I know, I exaggerate sometimes", not realizing that it's a bad thing. Sometimes they also exaggerate their own feelings and state of being (attention, maybe). And if it makes you feel better, I find the intuitive subtypes slightley less annoying.