Im very much the Intuitive subtype. Im reserved for an extrovert and Ni tests extremely strong on the individual function test for me.

For fun-- Ive seen many people online make a lot of ENFJ sterotypes. Ive seen hippies, politicians, librarians, corporate climbers, drama queens, manipulators...etc...etc...etc. I really dont understand the angst. Im sure there are shitty enfjs and good enfjs. Actually I do understand. We seem to express negative over positve more often. Oh well. Another issue is that male and female ENFJs seem to be very different. Perhaps female ENFJs are more prone to skill abuse due to the social acceptance of F. I dont know. Males are more likely to repress this for sure. I do have to make a common belief correction. ENFJs are controlling--not manipulative. Control is at their core.