The Grey One

[Beautiful sky]

My husband read through the Socionics romance types and chose the infantile group as the only one that he felt was remotely close to how he perceives himself.

Infantile - Wikisocion

We perceive ourselves as our duals in cases where we have not grown up with one to know our selves. We manipulate our internal selves to cope with ourselves, but on the outside, people will tell you that you are different then what you perceive.

If he perceives himself INFp...he's ESTp
If he perceives himself ENFp...he's ISTp

For the longest time I thought I was ESTj, especially before full development of my own type, but then, with the help of my dual cousin and friends and family, I was able to put my conscious and outside self in perspective and bring them to harmony and self realization of one another...a merging of self, so to say.

[Creepy-Cyclops]

We perceive ourselves as our duals in cases where we have not grown up with one to know our selves. We manipulate our internal selves to cope with ourselves, but on the outside, people will tell you that you are different then what you perceive.

If he perceives himself INFp...he's ESTp
If he perceives himself ENFp...he's ISTp

For the longest time I thought I was ESTj, especially before full development of my own type, but then, with the help of my dual cousin and friends and family, I was able to put my conscious and outside self in perspective and bring them to harmony and self realization of one another...a merging of self, so to say.

It says in the textbooks that people who are around their dual for a long time start to act and resemble their dual somewhat, so what you say doesn't make any sense.